Dear Edith, I feel the despair in your heart, I understand the hopelessness and the fear surrounding you and your children, I know exactly where you are at, as I was your husband 22 years ago and my two daughters were just 30 months and one year old, I went to two treatment centers before Jesus was able to lift the terrible curse that controlled me, my ex-wife never prayed for me or did a family intervention to try and bring the error of my destructive ways to my attaention, your husband is blessed as you are reaching out and praying for him, I never got my family back, as my ex-wife does not know our Lord and Saviour to this day, ask Jesus for solid counsel and seek the elders of your church, and have the church and your family do an intervention to try and get his attention, I will pray for you and ask Jesus to intervene,,,God Bless