### And ### Need Guidance

[MicheleCarter]

Please pray for my husband and me, we are separated and every other day my husband tells me he misses me and that he loves me but he is not good for me and that he will never be good enough. I have been trying to get him to come to church with me but he always makes excuses. On the off days when he doesn't miss me he acts like I am non-existent, like we never happened.

I need prayer on being able to hear what God is telling me to do. I am tired of feeling rejected every day by my husband. My husband came to town the last two days and didn't make time to see me. A friend of mine said I needed to wait for a sign from God on if it is really over between us. I don't know what type of sign she was talking about.

I just want to be loved and wanted again. I want to be important too.

Please God let this happen, show me what to do, and please no more torture from my husband. The emotional pain is too much to handle. I'm sorry I can't take it anymore.

Please help me

In Jesus' name I pray!

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[faithope]

Dear ###

Part of a marriage life is to die to self. Marriage is never on cloud nine where your feelings are always going to be cherished and treasured. Instead, marriage is a commitment, a vow that YOU SWORE before God and your husband that you will be by his side in good and in not so wonderful times. And this is one of those times, that your feelings must not be the primary thing. If feelings are all that you care about rather than the promise, the vow that you swore in the sight of God, then, you are just ALLOWING the enemy to have a field day in your marriage. A year down the road, you will regret that you have allowed your FEELINGS to ruin your marriage.

Don't look at your husband for emotional support all the time, simply because he is not God, he is human with weaknesses just like we selfish humans are. That is life, so welcome to planet earth. Any woman who has been totally rejected by their husband for another woman is devastating—but at least, yours is still faithful though he doesn't seem to give you a lot or hardly any emotional support. I can bet that any woman whose been dumped by their husband for another woman will be baffled to see that you are wanting to dump him because of your feelings and not because of another woman.

You don't need a sign to see if God is telling you that your husband doesn't deserve you—that is NOT God. Instead, look to God for your emotional needs and He will make it everything right for you, dear ###. Ask any happy long-lasting Godly marriages and they will tell you the same thing—LOOK TO JESUS, your Author of every bit and atom of your being.

Lord we thank You for ### that she will take heed Your word rather than the wrong advice from so-called Christian friends or friends—give her the strength to stand strong on Your word and truth, as we ask this in Your Most Precious Name, Jesus, amen.

 

[Ms. Unbeatable]

Father God in heaven heal and restore the relationship of these couple. Let your love dwell in them Lord. Father make this marriage be pleasing to your eye let your love and mercy be upon this marriage In Jesus name I pray amen.