We hear your deep frustration and pain, and we want to address this with truth, love, and the wisdom of Scripture. First, let us affirm that your struggles, feeling overlooked, marginalized, or oppressed in your own land, are real and valid. The Bible does not shy away from acknowledging the suffering of God’s people, nor does it ignore the injustices of this world. However, we must carefully examine the claims you’ve made, especially concerning Jesus and His Word, to ensure our hearts and minds are aligned with God’s truth.
You mention that Jesus is a factor making you want to leave "this religion," and you reference the Bible’s care for foreigners. Let us look at what Scripture actually says about this. In Leviticus 19:33-34 (WEB), the Lord commands His people: "If a stranger lives as a foreigner with you in your land, you shall not do him wrong. The stranger who lives as a foreigner with you shall be to you as the native-born among you, and you shall love him as yourself; for you lived as foreigners in the land of Egypt. I am Yahweh your God." This passage, and others like it, show God’s heart for the foreigner, not because He values them above His own people, but because He calls His people to reflect His character of justice, mercy, and love. The command to care for the foreigner is not a license for nations to prioritize outsiders over their own citizens; rather, it is a call to balance justice with compassion, ensuring that no one is oppressed, whether native or foreigner.
The issue you describe, where a nation’s policies may favor foreigners to the detriment of its own people, is indeed a serious one. Scripture warns against partiality and injustice in all forms. Proverbs 28:21 (WEB) says, "To show partiality is not good; yet a man will do wrong for a piece of bread." When leaders or systems favor one group over another, it breeds resentment, division, and suffering. We must pray for wisdom for those in authority, that they would govern with righteousness and fairness (1 Timothy 2:1-2). However, let us be clear: the solution to injustice is not to reject Jesus or His Word, but to seek His justice and righteousness more fervently.
You also express frustration with Jesus Himself, describing Him as "unsuitable." This is a heavy accusation, and we must ask: What do you find unsuitable about Him? Is it His teachings on love, forgiveness, and humility? Is it His call to deny ourselves and take up our cross (Luke 9:23)? Or is it the way His followers have failed to live out His commands, leaving you disillusioned? If it is the latter, we acknowledge that the church has often fallen short of reflecting Christ’s love and justice. But let us not confuse the failures of people with the perfection of Jesus. He is the only One who has never failed, who laid down His life for us while we were still sinners (Romans 5:8). To reject Him because of the sins of others is to cut ourselves off from the very source of hope, healing, and true justice.
Scripture is clear that there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus is not just a factor in our faith; He is the foundation. Without Him, we have no access to God, no forgiveness of sins, and no eternal hope. If you are feeling drawn away from Him, we urge you to examine your heart and ask: Is this truly about Jesus, or is it about the pain and frustration you feel in this world? Jesus Himself warned that following Him would not be easy (John 16:33), but He also promised that His yoke is light and His burden is easy (Matthew 11:30). The world’s systems will always be broken, but in Christ, we find a kingdom that is unshakable (Hebrews 12:28).
Let us also address the idea of leaving "this religion." Christianity is not merely a religion; it is a relationship with the living God through Jesus Christ. Religion can be man-made, but a relationship with Jesus is transformative. If you feel that what you’ve experienced is empty religion, we grieve with you. True Christianity is not about rituals or rules, but about a heart surrendered to Christ. It is about loving God and loving others as ourselves (Matthew 22:37-39). If the church has failed you, we repent on behalf of those who have not lived out the gospel. But do not let the failures of people keep you from the perfect love of Christ.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is feeling the weight of injustice, frustration, and perhaps even anger toward You. Lord, we ask that You would meet them in this place of pain. Reveal Yourself to them in a fresh and powerful way, so that they may see You not as a distant or unsuitable Savior, but as the One who understands their suffering and offers true hope.
Father, we pray for wisdom and discernment for them. Help them to see where their pain is coming from, whether it is the brokenness of this world, the failures of Your people, or perhaps a misunderstanding of Your Word. Soften their heart to receive Your truth, and give them the courage to bring their doubts and questions to You. Remind them that You are not afraid of their honesty, and that You can handle their anger, their confusion, and their pain.
Lord, we also pray for the nation where they live. Raise up leaders who will govern with righteousness and justice, who will care for the foreigner without oppressing the native-born. Let Your kingdom come and Your will be done in their land, as it is in heaven. Heal the divisions that have caused so much hurt, and let Your people be a light in the darkness.
Most of all, Father, we pray that they would encounter Jesus in a personal and life-changing way. Let them see Him as the One who came not to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many (Mark 10:45). Let them experience Your love in a way that overwhelms their pain and draws them closer to You. Help them to lay down their burdens at the foot of the cross and to find rest in You.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.
In closing, we want to encourage you to press into Jesus, even in your frustration. Bring your questions, your doubts, and your pain to Him. He is big enough to handle them all. If you feel that the church has failed you, seek out a community of believers who are truly living out the gospel, who love God and love others with authenticity and humility. And remember, the injustices of this world are temporary, but the hope we have in Christ is eternal. Do not let the brokenness of this life drive you away from the One who offers true healing and redemption.