Chrysostom
Beloved of All
You have poured out many requests to God, and this is good, for we are commanded to pray without ceasing. Yet I must stir you up to consider what is the chief of all your petitions. For you ask protection from dangers, healing of diseases, provision for the single mother, and safety in travels. But I shudder when I think of the fire that is never quenched. Do we not need sackcloth and prolonged fasting more than the people of Nineveh? For we are not concerned with the overthrow of a city, but with eternal punishment. Let your first cry be that every soul among you would escape that doom and find true salvation in Christ.
You long for your family to study the Bible and pray together. This is a beautiful desire. But remember: many heard the word and believed for a time, yet they did not continue. Only those who continue in Christ’s word are truly His disciples. Let your family not be hearers only, but doers, clinging to His teaching day by day. When you read the Scriptures, listen as if God Himself were exhorting you, not as if you were hearing men. For it was for this reason John the Baptist was sent: that through his witness his own class might believe. So let your own life bear witness, that those who do not know Christ, your family and friends, might see your good works and come to believe.
You ask for growth in wisdom and freedom from sexual pollution. But understand this: what makes a man unclean is not the outward thing, but the purpose of the heart. It is disobedience and friendship with devils that pollute. If you keep your hearts set on God, you may walk in this world without anxiety, asking no question, as those who know that Christ’s yoke is easy and His burden light. So do not let your imagination be fluttered by worldly fears. For even in the marketplace, you can collect yourself and sing to God in your hearts, no one hearing. Moses cried out without a word, and God alone heard him. In the same way, pray without ceasing, not with the voice only, but with a contrite heart.
You beg for a young single mother to escape abuse, and for all single mothers in burnout to find rescue. Let me say: do not grow weary in praying for them, even if heaven seems silent. The Canaanite woman came to Christ and at first received not a word. Yet she persisted in humility, and at last her daughter was healed. Let these suffering women cry out to God day and night, and let the Church surround them with intercession. But let them also remember: if they continue in faith, the trial will work patience, and patience will bring them to a place of liberty that no oppressor can touch.
For your children and all who pray here, I implore you: do not set your hope mainly on safety in travel, prosperity, or earthly success. Good things can become snares. We often desire a smooth life, but to be a true disciple means to endure. The Thessalonians were commended because they received the word in much affliction, as if hearing God Himself. So when hard times come, as they must, receive them as the very school of Christ. Our Lord said His yoke is easy, not that it costs nothing, but that He Himself bears it with us. The burden is light because He transforms our suffering into glory.
Do not cease to speak the word to those who seem insensible. You have prayed for the salvation of many. Some may hear ten times and remain unmoved, yet a single hearing afterward may strike them like an axe and bring forth conversion. The blows of exhortation are not wasted, though the fruit is hidden. Continue therefore in prayer and in speaking the truth in love, entrusting the harvest to God.
Finally, for your children, pray not only that they avoid evil, but that they may have the fear of the Lord, which is the beginning of wisdom. Teach them to sing in their hearts to God, not for display, but with grace. For it is from the Spirit that we learn to offer true worship. All that you ask, protection, guidance, health, and provision, commit these to the Lord with thanksgiving. But let your soul be fixed above all on the kingdom that cannot be shaken. For what does it profit a child to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?
Let all praise and glory be to God, who works in us both to will and to do His good pleasure. Continue steadfast in prayer, and let your hearts not be weighed down with the cares of this life, but set your minds on things above. Thus you will find rest for your souls.
You long for your family to study the Bible and pray together. This is a beautiful desire. But remember: many heard the word and believed for a time, yet they did not continue. Only those who continue in Christ’s word are truly His disciples. Let your family not be hearers only, but doers, clinging to His teaching day by day. When you read the Scriptures, listen as if God Himself were exhorting you, not as if you were hearing men. For it was for this reason John the Baptist was sent: that through his witness his own class might believe. So let your own life bear witness, that those who do not know Christ, your family and friends, might see your good works and come to believe.
You ask for growth in wisdom and freedom from sexual pollution. But understand this: what makes a man unclean is not the outward thing, but the purpose of the heart. It is disobedience and friendship with devils that pollute. If you keep your hearts set on God, you may walk in this world without anxiety, asking no question, as those who know that Christ’s yoke is easy and His burden light. So do not let your imagination be fluttered by worldly fears. For even in the marketplace, you can collect yourself and sing to God in your hearts, no one hearing. Moses cried out without a word, and God alone heard him. In the same way, pray without ceasing, not with the voice only, but with a contrite heart.
You beg for a young single mother to escape abuse, and for all single mothers in burnout to find rescue. Let me say: do not grow weary in praying for them, even if heaven seems silent. The Canaanite woman came to Christ and at first received not a word. Yet she persisted in humility, and at last her daughter was healed. Let these suffering women cry out to God day and night, and let the Church surround them with intercession. But let them also remember: if they continue in faith, the trial will work patience, and patience will bring them to a place of liberty that no oppressor can touch.
For your children and all who pray here, I implore you: do not set your hope mainly on safety in travel, prosperity, or earthly success. Good things can become snares. We often desire a smooth life, but to be a true disciple means to endure. The Thessalonians were commended because they received the word in much affliction, as if hearing God Himself. So when hard times come, as they must, receive them as the very school of Christ. Our Lord said His yoke is easy, not that it costs nothing, but that He Himself bears it with us. The burden is light because He transforms our suffering into glory.
Do not cease to speak the word to those who seem insensible. You have prayed for the salvation of many. Some may hear ten times and remain unmoved, yet a single hearing afterward may strike them like an axe and bring forth conversion. The blows of exhortation are not wasted, though the fruit is hidden. Continue therefore in prayer and in speaking the truth in love, entrusting the harvest to God.
Finally, for your children, pray not only that they avoid evil, but that they may have the fear of the Lord, which is the beginning of wisdom. Teach them to sing in their hearts to God, not for display, but with grace. For it is from the Spirit that we learn to offer true worship. All that you ask, protection, guidance, health, and provision, commit these to the Lord with thanksgiving. But let your soul be fixed above all on the kingdom that cannot be shaken. For what does it profit a child to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?
Let all praise and glory be to God, who works in us both to will and to do His good pleasure. Continue steadfast in prayer, and let your hearts not be weighed down with the cares of this life, but set your minds on things above. Thus you will find rest for your souls.
