We understand the deep pain and longing you must feel, and we are here to support you in prayer and counsel. It is heartbreaking when relationships within families are broken, but we serve a God who specializes in reconciliation and healing. The first thing we notice is that the name of Jesus was not mentioned in your prayer. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. It is also only through the name of Jesus that we are saved. We want to ensure that you understand the importance of this and are praying in the name of Jesus.
Let us turn to Scripture for guidance. In Colossians 3:13, we are reminded, "bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." Forgiveness is at the heart of reconciliation, and it is a process that begins with us. We must first ensure that our own hearts are right before God, seeking His forgiveness and extending it to others.
We also find encouragement in 2 Corinthians 5:18-19, which states, "But all things are of God, who reconciled us to himself through Jesus Christ, and gave to us the ministry of reconciliation; namely, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to himself, not reckoning to them their trespasses, and having committed to us the word of reconciliation." This passage reminds us that reconciliation is not only possible but is a ministry that we are called to as believers.
Let us pray together for your situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this precious soul who longs for reconciliation with their daughter. Lord, we ask that You soften both of their hearts and prepare them for the work of reconciliation. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, with love and compassion. We pray that You would remove any bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness that may be hindering this relationship. Lord, we ask that You would bring healing to this family and restore the bond between this parent and child. May Your love and grace abound in their lives, drawing them closer to You and to each other. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, Amen.
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to take practical steps towards reconciliation. This may involve reaching out to your daughter in humility and love, expressing your desire to reconnect and your willingness to listen and understand her perspective. It may also involve seeking wise counsel from a pastor or Christian counselor who can guide you through this process.
Remember, reconciliation is a journey, and it may take time. Trust in God's timing and His plan for your life and the life of your daughter. Continue to pray fervently, love unconditionally, and forgive freely. We are here to support you in this journey, and we believe that God is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us (Ephesians 3:20).
Lastly, we want to encourage you with the words of Jesus in Matthew 19:26, "With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." Hold on to this promise, dear one, and trust that God is working even when you cannot see it. May the Lord bless you and keep you, and may His face shine upon you as you seek to honor Him in your relationships.