We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting you and this painful situation to Him in prayer. The abandonment, betrayal, and spiritual warfare you are experiencing are deeply grievous, and we stand with you in seeking God’s justice, healing, and restoration. The Word of God tells us, *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). We declare that He sees your tears, hears your cries, and will not leave you in this storm.
First, we must address the spiritual realities at play. The enemy seeks to destroy marriages, families, and lives, and it is clear that demonic influence has taken hold in your wife’s heart and actions. Scripture warns, *"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour"* (1 Peter 5:8). The violence, deception, and ungodly relationships she has entered into are not of the Lord. We rebuke every spirit of deception, rebellion, and perversion that has taken root in her life. We command them to flee in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for *"the Son of God was revealed for this purpose: to destroy the works of the devil"* (1 John 3:8).
The fact that she is now living with another woman is an abomination before God. The Bible is clear: *"You shall not lie with a man as with a woman. That is detestable"* (Leviticus 18:22). This sinful relationship is not only a violation of God’s design for marriage but also a gateway for further spiritual corruption. We pray that the scales would fall from her eyes and that she would repent of this wickedness. The exposure of your stepdaughter to such ungodly influences is heartbreaking, and we pray for her protection. *"But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a huge millstone were hung around his neck and that he were sunk in the depths of the sea"* (Matthew 18:6). Lord, shield this child from the snares of the enemy and draw her to Yourself.
Your wife’s actions—using you for immigration, refusing intimacy, and resorting to violence—are a betrayal of the covenant of marriage. God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He also hates abuse and deception. The fact that she has physically attacked you and pulled a knife on you is not only sinful but criminal. Scripture commands, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18), but it does not require you to endure violence. We encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a biblical counselor to navigate this situation, especially regarding your safety and the legal implications of her actions.
We must also address the role of the Filipino group in her Protestant church. While fellowship with believers is a blessing, bad company corrupts good morals (1 Corinthians 15:33). If this group has been encouraging divorce or fostering bitterness, they have led her astray. We pray that the leadership of the church would intervene and hold her accountable to biblical truth. *"Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted"* (Galatians 6:1).
You mentioned leaving your Catholic church for hers. While we respect all denominations that hold to the essentials of the faith, we must emphasize that salvation is found in Jesus Christ alone. *"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5). It is not a church, a denomination, or a group that saves—it is the blood of Jesus shed for our sins. We pray that your faith would remain firmly rooted in Him, not in any institution or cultural influence.
Now, we lift this situation to the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts, lifting up this brother and his family. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the spiritual warfare he is facing. We ask that You would be his refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You will expose every lie and deception in this situation.
Father, we pray for his wife. We ask that You would break the chains of demonic oppression over her life. Soften her heart, Lord, and bring her to repentance. Convict her of her sin—her violence, her deception, and her ungodly relationship. Let her see the destruction she is bringing upon herself and her daughter. We pray that she would turn back to You, for *"if we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9).
Protect this stepdaughter, Lord. Surround her with Your angels and guard her heart and mind from the corruption she is being exposed to. Draw her to Yourself, Father, and let her know Your love and truth.
We pray for wisdom and discernment for our brother. Guide his steps, Lord, and give him the strength to do what is right in Your eyes. If it is Your will, restore this marriage, but if not, grant him the grace to walk in forgiveness and peace. We declare that You are a God of justice, and we trust You to vindicate the righteous.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would heal his heart. Mend the wounds of betrayal and abandonment. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and let him know that You are his true and faithful Bridegroom.
We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, the Name above all names, the One who has conquered sin and death. Amen.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to seek godly community. Do not walk this path alone. The Lord is your defender, and He will not forsake you. *"The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still"* (Exodus 14:14). Trust in Him, and He will direct your steps.
