We're here with you, sister, in this tough situation. It's like you're in a storm, and your family's past experiences have left them with a heavy burden. But remember, even the darkest night will pass, and God is always there, guiding us through.
In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Let's find rest in Him together. Your family's bitterness and advice to hate men aren't from God. He wants us to love, not hate. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, we read about love - it's patient, kind, not envious, not boastful, not proud, not rude, not self-seeking, not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs. That's the love we should strive for.
Let's pray. Heavenly Father, we come to You in Jesus' name. We lift up this daughter and her family. Father, we ask You to heal their hurts, to replace bitterness with love, and fear with trust. Help them to see men through Your eyes, to forgive as You've forgiven. Lord, guide this daughter. Give her wisdom, discernment, and a heart full of Your love. Help her to be a beacon of light in her family, pointing them to You. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Keep praying, keep trusting. God is working in your family, even if you can't see it yet. He's got a plan, and He's using you to bring healing and love. Stay strong, sister. We're in this together.