A Good man

[Anonymous]

Life into existence greatly I find a good man that STAYSSSZZZ.. I only need one I repeat specifically I need one Man in the spiritual to the physical that can rise up from the jelly takers haters of me and God Almighty pure beautiful energy of a Man A Woman God Marriage of real unity Rebuke the Bozos that just hate the idea of me actually being treated with honor my best friend someone I can trust and real true love one for me that is a good thing that is mine only mine not a Bozo i dont ever want to b in love with a Bozo ever again GREATLYYYYY with the blood of Jesus

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep cry of your heart for a good and faithful man, a godly husband who will stay, honor you, and love you with a true and lasting love, and we join with you in bringing this desire before the Lord together in Jesus' name.

We understand the pain behind your words, the hurt from those who have not treated you with honor and the longing to be cherished by one trustworthy man who will be your best friend in a marriage that glorifies God. God Himself ordained marriage from the beginning, and we strongly affirm His beautiful design. For this cause a man will leave his father and his mother, and will be joined to his wife, and they will become one flesh Genesis 2:24. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman, and a godly marriage reflects Christ's love for His church. We pray for you not simply for a partner or a relationship, but for a godly spouse, and we encourage you to pursue courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer who loves the Lord with all his heart.

The Lord delights to give good gifts to His children, and He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh Proverbs 18:22. We encourage you to seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33. Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart Psalm 37:4. This means trusting His timing and His wisdom rather than trying to speak life into existence through our own words or energy. It is God who is sovereign, who hears our prayers and answers according to His perfect will, not our own power to manifest. We are to ask, seek, and knock in prayer, trusting Him. In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God Philippians 4:6.

We also want to gently address some of what you shared with love and truth. We hear your frustration toward those you call haters and bozos, and the desire to rebuke those who wish you harm. The Word tells us Don't repay evil for evil Romans 12:17 and Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord Romans 12:19. We are called to guard our tongue, for Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up Ephesians 4:29. Even when we have been hurt deeply, God calls us to release bitterness and forgive, trusting Him to be our defender and to bring justice in His time, so that our hearts remain pure as we wait for the godly husband He may provide. A husband who honors God will love his wife even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:25 and will give honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel 1 Peter 3:7.

We also encourage you in purity as you wait. If you have been in romantic relationships outside of marriage, we lovingly remind you that God calls us to flee sexual immorality, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. Any courtship should be centered on Christ, with boundaries that honor God, looking toward marriage and not involving sex before or outside of marriage, which is fornication. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14. Pray for a man who is already walking faithfully with Jesus, so that together you can build a marriage on the foundation of Christ.

We thank you for mentioning the blood of Jesus, for it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God and it is by His blood we are saved and made new. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. We are grateful you have called upon Him.

We pray together for you now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ and by His precious blood, lifting up our sister to Your throne of grace. Lord, You know the loneliness and the longing of her heart and the wounds from those who have not valued her as Your daughter. We ask that You heal her heart from past hurt and remove all bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Forgive us where we have spoken harshly and help us to speak with grace. Father, if it is Your will, we ask that You bring into her life a godly man, a faithful Christian believer who will pursue her with honor, purity, and selfless love, who will stay and be a true husband and best friend, committed to a lifelong marriage covenant that glorifies You. Help her to wait upon You with patience and hope, guarding her heart and walking in purity and wisdom. Give her discernment to recognize a man after Your own heart and not be deceived again. Let any future courtship be centered on You and lead to a holy marriage between a man and a woman as You designed. We rebuke any influence of hatred or jealousy around her and ask You to be her shield and defender. We trust Your perfect plan and Your perfect timing. May Your will be done in her life. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

We encourage you to remain rooted in the Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers who can support and counsel you, and to trust that God sees you, values you, and will provide in His perfect way and time. Love is patient and is kind 1 Corinthians 13:4, and a godly husband will reflect that patient, kind, enduring love. Keep seeking the Lord first, and He will direct your steps.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how deeply you want this, one good, faithful man who stays, who honors you, who is a true best friend and loves you well in a God-honoring marriage. It makes sense you would ask so strongly after being hurt before. Wanting to be treated with honor and to be able to trust someone completely is a good and right desire, and we are bringing it before the Lord with you.

Being tired of relationships that left you feeling used or mocked can make it hard to trust again, even while you still hope for real love. That tension is understandable. We pray God steadies your heart in that waiting, and helps you feel seen and supported right where you are now.

One simple next step that often helps in this season is staying rooted in consistent community where character can be seen over time. As you continue to pray for a husband, letting a couple of mature, trusted people in your church family know your desire for marriage and your past hurts can give you extra wisdom and covering as you get to know anyone new. They can see patterns we sometimes miss when we are hopeful.

Father, we lift our sister to You in Jesus' name. You know her longing for a faithful, loving marriage and the pain of being let down before. Guard her heart, heal what still hurts, and lead her with wisdom and peace. Provide trustworthy community around her and guide her steps according to Your will. Help her to know she is deeply valued and loved by You today. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

Your longing for a faithful and abiding marriage, a union of one man and one woman in the Lord, is a comely desire when it is laid humbly at the feet of Christ. The heart that cries for true love, for honor and trust and constancy, does well to bring that cry to God, for He alone can give what is good and keep what He gives.

Scripture teaches us that to handle a matter wisely is to find good, and the true way to handle a matter wisely is to trust God. There is a temptation, when the heart is lonely and has been wounded by those who have proved false, to speak as though we might by our own words command life into existence, or to grow impatient for Providence to fulfill its purpose. Remember how Rebekah could not wait for God's Providence and thought she must by her own device secure the blessing. We are not to be impudent and rash, that were to trust chance and not to trust God, for God is a God of economy and order. We are to trust Him, acting in all prudence and in all uprightness, and to rely simply and entirely upon Him.

And what is it to trust Him in this matter? It is first to love Christ best. The expression used in Scripture for all true godliness is often the fear of the Lord, and why was fear selected? Because great love has that neighbor jealousy not far off. He who loves us with an intense and definite love is determined to have all our love. Before we ask for another heart to be joined to ours, let us ask, does Christ have our whole heart? May He not say to us as to Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, do you love Me? Indeed, do you love Me? If we love Him first, we shall be kept from casting ourselves again upon those who are unworthy, upon boasters and deceivers, and we shall be made ready to love rightly when He in His wisdom provides.

You ask that the haters and the jealous may be rebuked, and that you may be kept from loving what is false. Bring this as true prayer before God. True prayer has power because it moves the hand that moves the world. Yet God hears not sinners in the sense of those who would come with brazen forehead, holding to sin with one hand while asking blessing with the other. If a wife had forsaken her husband, would she have the impudence to come back leaning on the arm of her paramour and ask his pardon? So we must come honestly, confessing all past failures, turning from all impurity and from every way that is not according to His statute, pleading not our energy or our worth but the blood of Jesus. Trust His blood, depend upon His finished righteousness, and you shall be saved and kept. That same blood that blots out sin makes us to love Him and to love what is good and true and generous for His sake.

Will you call upon God and will you always call upon Him? There are trying periods and sifting seasons, and times of joy and sorrow are equally critical. The true soul will pray in business and in labor, and short prayers will fly up all day long, but the mere pretender fails when the answer tarries. Persevere. Drink abundantly of His love, for He says, Drink, yea, drink abundantly, O beloved. Let your heart be satisfied first in Christ, eating and drinking all the stores of His banquet, trusting His promise that He will do you good and keep you through every fire of trial.

Let us pray together for you.

O Lord our God, who art love abounding and love abiding, look upon this Thy child who desires a good and faithful companionship in holy marriage. Forgive all sin through the blood of Jesus Christ Thy Son, and cleanse the heart that would be Thine alone. Teach this soul to trust Thee wholly in this temporal matter as in all things, to wait upon Thy Providence in prudence and uprightness, and not to lean to its own understanding. If it be Thy will, in Thy good time provide a godly man, a man of truth and honor and persevering love, that together there may be a pure and lifelong covenant as Thou hast ordained. Keep this heart from all deceit and from every false lover, guard it from bitterness toward those who hate, and cause it to find its strong confidence and sweetest content in Christ Himself. Grant increase of faith and love, that whether single or married, this life may be to Thy glory. We ask this not for any merit of ours, but for Jesus' sake, whose witness is true. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your longing for one faithful man who will stay, who will honor you and love you truly in a marriage ordained by God, is a good and honorable desire. Marriage between one man and one woman is a gift from God, a lifelong covenant meant for unity, love and mutual honor, and it is right to ask the Lord for such a companion who will be your best friend and whom you can trust.

I hear also the pain in your words, the weariness from those who have not treated you with honor and from loving those who proved unfaithful. It is understandable to say you never want to love that kind of man again. God sees that hurt and He is able to heal it, to give you wisdom and discernment, and to guard your heart while you wait. The past does not have to define what God will do next.

Scripture teaches us what to seek and what to become while we wait. Do not seek first money or outward splendor or family status, for those things are passing. Seek a man of piety of soul, gentleness, true understanding and the fear of God, one who will be a true husband and protector, a head who loves as Christ loves the Church and who will give you the honor due to a wife. And likewise cultivate in yourself what is most pleasurable to God, which is virtue, orderliness and gravity of life. Marriage is honorable and pure when it is entered with holiness, keeping yourself pure and not giving place to fornication, but preserving the holiness that comes through faith.

Therefore commit this whole matter into the hands of Christ. As the servant of Abraham did when he sought a wife for Isaac, go to prayer first and say, whomsoever Thou wilt, do Thou provide. God is honored when we place our deepest desires before Him and trust His provision, and He will requite that trust with honor in His own time and way. Use this season to love God above all, for He is the immortal Protector who loves you more than any person can, and when He is first, the loss and fear brought by others cannot overwhelm you.

I will pray with you now. Father in heaven, in the name and through the blood of Jesus Christ who alone saves, I ask You to hear this prayer. Grant to Your daughter a godly husband, one man who fears You, who is gentle and faithful and who will stay in a lifelong covenant of marriage as You designed it. Give her discernment to recognize such a man and to turn away from those who would not honor her. Heal the wounds of past relationships and guard her from bitterness. Protect her from those who hate and oppose what is good, and let their plans come to nothing, while You teach her to walk in peace and forgiveness. Keep her in holiness and chastity as she waits, that her life may bring forth fruit unto You. Provide in Your perfect wisdom one who is hers alone in the covenant of marriage, a unity that reflects Your love, built on trust, honor and true love. May Your will be done above all, and may she find her deepest security in You. Amen.