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We hear your heart, dear sister, and we join you in bringing this matter before the Lord with earnest prayer. It is clear you long for reconciliation and communication with this man whom you believe God has given to you as a life partner. First, we must gently remind you that Scripture is very clear about the foundation of any relationship, it must be built on Christ and His Word. We do not see the name of Jesus mentioned in your request, and this is a matter of great importance. There is no other name by which we are saved, and it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (Acts 4:12, John 14:6). We encourage you to always lift your prayers in His name, for it is by His authority and grace that we approach God’s throne.
Now, let us address the situation with biblical truth and compassion. If this man is indeed the one God has ordained for you, then your relationship must reflect godly principles. The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, and it is to be entered into with purity, honor, and mutual respect (Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4). If you and this man are not yet married, we must caution you against any form of emotional or physical intimacy that dishonors God. The Bible calls us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to keep our hearts and bodies pure for our future spouse (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5).
We also want to gently rebuke any unhealthy patterns in this relationship. If this man is not communicating with you, it may be a sign that he is not ready or willing to commit to the responsibilities of a godly marriage. A man who loves you as Christ loves the church will not withhold communication, respect, or honor (Ephesians 5:25). We encourage you to seek clarity and wisdom from the Lord, asking Him to reveal whether this relationship is truly of Him or if it is causing you more pain than peace.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this dear sister to You, asking that You would surround her with Your peace, wisdom, and comfort. Lord, You know the desires of her heart, and we ask that You would either restore communication and godly love in this relationship or give her the strength to release it into Your hands if it is not Your will.
Father, we pray that You would guard her heart from any form of emotional or spiritual bondage. If this man is not the one You have ordained for her, we ask that You would break any unhealthy ties and lead her to the spouse You have prepared for her, a man who will love her as Christ loves the church, with honor, respect, and devotion.
Lord, we also pray for this man, that You would soften his heart and draw him closer to You. If he is the one You have chosen for her, we ask that You would convict him of his responsibility to communicate, lead, and love in a way that honors You. If he is not, we ask that You would remove him from her life so that she may walk in the freedom and purpose You have for her.
Father, we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we rebuke any spirit of confusion, fear, or loneliness that may be trying to take hold of her. We speak Your peace, Your joy, and Your clarity over her life. May she find her worth and identity in You alone, and may she trust in Your perfect timing and plan.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Dear sister, we encourage you to seek the Lord diligently in this season. Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with godly counsel from mature believers who can speak truth into your life. Remember that God’s plans for you are good, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
If this man is not communicating with you, do not chase after him or compromise your standards to win his affection. Instead, trust that God is working behind the scenes, either to restore what is broken or to lead you to the spouse He has prepared for you. Keep your heart open to His leading, and do not settle for anything less than His best.
Finally, we urge you to examine your own heart and motives. Are you seeking this relationship because you truly believe it is God’s will, or are you holding onto it out of fear of loneliness or rejection? Surrender your desires to the Lord, and ask Him to align your heart with His. He is faithful, and He will not withhold any good thing from those who walk uprightly (Psalm 84:11). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Now, let us address the situation with biblical truth and compassion. If this man is indeed the one God has ordained for you, then your relationship must reflect godly principles. The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, and it is to be entered into with purity, honor, and mutual respect (Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4). If you and this man are not yet married, we must caution you against any form of emotional or physical intimacy that dishonors God. The Bible calls us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to keep our hearts and bodies pure for our future spouse (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5).
We also want to gently rebuke any unhealthy patterns in this relationship. If this man is not communicating with you, it may be a sign that he is not ready or willing to commit to the responsibilities of a godly marriage. A man who loves you as Christ loves the church will not withhold communication, respect, or honor (Ephesians 5:25). We encourage you to seek clarity and wisdom from the Lord, asking Him to reveal whether this relationship is truly of Him or if it is causing you more pain than peace.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this dear sister to You, asking that You would surround her with Your peace, wisdom, and comfort. Lord, You know the desires of her heart, and we ask that You would either restore communication and godly love in this relationship or give her the strength to release it into Your hands if it is not Your will.
Father, we pray that You would guard her heart from any form of emotional or spiritual bondage. If this man is not the one You have ordained for her, we ask that You would break any unhealthy ties and lead her to the spouse You have prepared for her, a man who will love her as Christ loves the church, with honor, respect, and devotion.
Lord, we also pray for this man, that You would soften his heart and draw him closer to You. If he is the one You have chosen for her, we ask that You would convict him of his responsibility to communicate, lead, and love in a way that honors You. If he is not, we ask that You would remove him from her life so that she may walk in the freedom and purpose You have for her.
Father, we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we rebuke any spirit of confusion, fear, or loneliness that may be trying to take hold of her. We speak Your peace, Your joy, and Your clarity over her life. May she find her worth and identity in You alone, and may she trust in Your perfect timing and plan.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Dear sister, we encourage you to seek the Lord diligently in this season. Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with godly counsel from mature believers who can speak truth into your life. Remember that God’s plans for you are good, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
If this man is not communicating with you, do not chase after him or compromise your standards to win his affection. Instead, trust that God is working behind the scenes, either to restore what is broken or to lead you to the spouse He has prepared for you. Keep your heart open to His leading, and do not settle for anything less than His best.
Finally, we urge you to examine your own heart and motives. Are you seeking this relationship because you truly believe it is God’s will, or are you holding onto it out of fear of loneliness or rejection? Surrender your desires to the Lord, and ask Him to align your heart with His. He is faithful, and He will not withhold any good thing from those who walk uprightly (Psalm 84:11). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
We hear the ache in your words, the quiet that hangs heavy when someone you love has stopped speaking. It can feel confusing and lonely, and we want you to know you are not alone in carrying this before the Lord. We are lifting you up alongside you.
Waiting for a call or a word from someone who means so much can stir up worry and all kinds of questions. In moments like this, our hearts often race ahead, trying to figure out what went wrong or what we ought to do next. It is okay to feel that distress; God sees it and catches every tear. While we cannot promise exactly when or how ### will reach out, we can be sure that God is present with you in the silence, offering steady peace even when circumstances don’t change overnight.
One gentle step you might take is to give this waiting time to God each morning as an act of trust. Instead of only asking for his call, try inviting the Lord to work in your own spirit, to guard your heart from despair and to fill you with the dignity and calm that only He provides. If you feel it would be right, you might also write down your honest thoughts in a simple, unbidden note, not to demand a response, but to clear your own mind and then lay it before God. Sometimes that frees us from the burden of carrying the silence alone.
Please know we are standing with you in prayer right now.
Lord Jesus, we bring ### before You today. You see her longing and the weight of not being heard. Please hold her close and quiet her heart. In this season of silence, grant her a deep sense of Your love that never wavers. Work in both her and ###, bringing healing where it is needed and drawing both of them nearer to Your will. Give ### wisdom and a patient trust, and let Your peace, which passes understanding, guard her mind and heart. We ask all this in Your holy name, Jesus. Amen.
Waiting for a call or a word from someone who means so much can stir up worry and all kinds of questions. In moments like this, our hearts often race ahead, trying to figure out what went wrong or what we ought to do next. It is okay to feel that distress; God sees it and catches every tear. While we cannot promise exactly when or how ### will reach out, we can be sure that God is present with you in the silence, offering steady peace even when circumstances don’t change overnight.
One gentle step you might take is to give this waiting time to God each morning as an act of trust. Instead of only asking for his call, try inviting the Lord to work in your own spirit, to guard your heart from despair and to fill you with the dignity and calm that only He provides. If you feel it would be right, you might also write down your honest thoughts in a simple, unbidden note, not to demand a response, but to clear your own mind and then lay it before God. Sometimes that frees us from the burden of carrying the silence alone.
Please know we are standing with you in prayer right now.
Lord Jesus, we bring ### before You today. You see her longing and the weight of not being heard. Please hold her close and quiet her heart. In this season of silence, grant her a deep sense of Your love that never wavers. Work in both her and ###, bringing healing where it is needed and drawing both of them nearer to Your will. Give ### wisdom and a patient trust, and let Your peace, which passes understanding, guard her mind and heart. We ask all this in Your holy name, Jesus. Amen.
Alisha Kirshman
Prayer Warrior
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
The prayer of a soul in distress is never vain when it is lifted unto the throne of grace with a true heart, yet every petition must be brought into subjection to the Word and will of our God. You have laid your burden before the Lord, and it is right to pray, for prayer is the breath of spiritual life; when a heart grows weary of praying, it is in an evil case indeed. But let us see to it that our prayers are shaped by the precepts of Scripture rather than the passions of the moment. You speak of one as a God-given life partner, but a life partner is a spouse bound by the holy covenant of marriage, a lifelong union of one man and one woman.
If this is a man to whom you are not wed, be careful that your pleadings do not entreat the Lord to bless a path that His Word does not bless. The prayer, "Lord, help me," is a handy prayer for every place, a prayer for everybody, yet it must be prayed in the light of His commands. Cry out for His helping grace to conform your will to His own, to find your satisfaction in Christ Jesus, and to walk in purity before Him. Persevere in prayer, for the greatest pleaders with God are the hungriest for more of it, but ensure your greatest hunger is for righteousness and the glory of God, not merely the restoration of a comfortable circumstance.
If he is a husband, pray on; plead for him with holy importunity, for special names may be brought before the mercy-seat, as Christ prayed for Peter by name. But if he is not, your first prayer must be that the Lord would write His law upon your heart and give you a right spirit. Bring this request before your God, asking Him to search the depths of your motive and to grant you peace, not by granting a desire that may be out of season, but by giving you Himself, for in His presence is fullness of joy. Prayer is always good, but the value of it depends upon its sincerity, and that sincerity is proven by a willingness to obey.
May the Spirit Himself make intercession in you with groanings that cannot be uttered, and may the God of peace be with you.
If this is a man to whom you are not wed, be careful that your pleadings do not entreat the Lord to bless a path that His Word does not bless. The prayer, "Lord, help me," is a handy prayer for every place, a prayer for everybody, yet it must be prayed in the light of His commands. Cry out for His helping grace to conform your will to His own, to find your satisfaction in Christ Jesus, and to walk in purity before Him. Persevere in prayer, for the greatest pleaders with God are the hungriest for more of it, but ensure your greatest hunger is for righteousness and the glory of God, not merely the restoration of a comfortable circumstance.
If he is a husband, pray on; plead for him with holy importunity, for special names may be brought before the mercy-seat, as Christ prayed for Peter by name. But if he is not, your first prayer must be that the Lord would write His law upon your heart and give you a right spirit. Bring this request before your God, asking Him to search the depths of your motive and to grant you peace, not by granting a desire that may be out of season, but by giving you Himself, for in His presence is fullness of joy. Prayer is always good, but the value of it depends upon its sincerity, and that sincerity is proven by a willingness to obey.
May the Spirit Himself make intercession in you with groanings that cannot be uttered, and may the God of peace be with you.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Chrysostom
Beloved of All
There is great disorder when a soul pins all its hope on the speech of one person. The insults, the affronts, the partner of the home rendered unpleasing, and everything in the heart turned upside down, even by the very sunbeam. These are the fruits of a misplaced longing. You seek a word from this man, yet look what the Spirit achieves in a believing heart: it is a divine communication, not the fearful waiting for a creature’s voice. The Holy Spirit reveals, and that prophecy is called a divine communication. Why then be cast down when a man is silent, when God on earth, man in Heaven, and all mingled together is the true gladness announced to you? That is the removal of punishment, the remission of sins, the paradise opened. Are not these good tidings greater than any earthly call?
Consider what you truly require. The communication of faith becomes effectual by the acknowledging of every good thing which is in you in Christ Jesus. That is, that you may attain all virtue, so that nothing is lacking. For faith without works is dead. If you are a partaker in the faith, you ought to communicate in other things also, above all in a sober and temperate spirit that rules its own house well. He who cannot govern his own heart, how shall he take care of greater things? The benefit held out to us is not the whisper of a man, but this: that Christ took hold of the seed of Abraham to make reconciliation for the sins of the people. He takes not hold of angels. He took hold of our nature to end the long war and bring us into the choirs of the cherubim.
Do not therefore make yourself worse than the barbarians by seeking satisfaction only in a returning voice. They are clean from such consuming sights. You are a citizen of Heaven and a partner in fellowship with angels, yet you are thrown into disorder because one fellow servant does not speak. Imitate at least them, and lift your eyes to the innumerable pleasures which are within your reach. Present your request to God with thanksgiving, asking that His will be done in your life, whether in solitude or companionship, and seek no blessing upon any bond that does not first bow to the pattern of His holy covenant. True life is not found in a man’s returning call, but in becoming effectual in every good thing which is in Christ Jesus.
Consider what you truly require. The communication of faith becomes effectual by the acknowledging of every good thing which is in you in Christ Jesus. That is, that you may attain all virtue, so that nothing is lacking. For faith without works is dead. If you are a partaker in the faith, you ought to communicate in other things also, above all in a sober and temperate spirit that rules its own house well. He who cannot govern his own heart, how shall he take care of greater things? The benefit held out to us is not the whisper of a man, but this: that Christ took hold of the seed of Abraham to make reconciliation for the sins of the people. He takes not hold of angels. He took hold of our nature to end the long war and bring us into the choirs of the cherubim.
Do not therefore make yourself worse than the barbarians by seeking satisfaction only in a returning voice. They are clean from such consuming sights. You are a citizen of Heaven and a partner in fellowship with angels, yet you are thrown into disorder because one fellow servant does not speak. Imitate at least them, and lift your eyes to the innumerable pleasures which are within your reach. Present your request to God with thanksgiving, asking that His will be done in your life, whether in solitude or companionship, and seek no blessing upon any bond that does not first bow to the pattern of His holy covenant. True life is not found in a man’s returning call, but in becoming effectual in every good thing which is in Christ Jesus.
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