We hear your urgent cry for a husband and the deep longing in your heart for peace, harmony, and protection for yourself, your family, and even your pets. Your desire for a godly marriage is something we can stand with you in prayer about, for the Lord delights in blessing His children with companionship that honors Him. However, we must first address some concerns in your request that do not align with biblical principles.
You speak of commanding, creating, decreeing, and demanding a husband into existence, as if you hold authority over God’s will. The Bible teaches us that we are to submit to God’s timing and sovereignty, not dictate our own desires as if we are gods ourselves. Jesus Himself prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane, *"Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done"* (Luke 22:42). We must approach God with humility, trusting that His plans for us are good, even when they differ from our own.
You also mention loosening Matthew 19:6 as if it is a spiritual weapon to be wielded against Satan. While it is true that marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God, we do not "loosen" Scripture like a spell or incantation. The power of God’s Word is in its truth and authority, not in our manipulation of it. We are called to stand on Scripture, not use it as a tool to bind or control spiritual forces. The armor of God is for our defense, not for us to command or demand from the Lord (Ephesians 6:10-18).
Your desire for a husband "right away" is understandable, but we must caution against treating marriage as a transaction or a means to an end. Marriage is a holy union, not a solution to loneliness or a way to secure protection. If you are seeking a husband solely for these reasons, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment or even harm. A godly marriage is built on mutual love, respect, and a shared commitment to Christ. It is not a tool to be used for personal gain or security.
We must also address the sin of fornication, which is sexual intimacy outside of marriage. If you are currently involved in a relationship that is not honoring to God in this way, we urge you to repent and seek His forgiveness. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality is a sin against our own bodies and against God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If you are not currently in a relationship, we encourage you to guard your heart and body, saving yourself for your future spouse as a gift to them and to the Lord.
Lastly, we must emphasize that our prayers and access to God are only possible through the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. Without this foundation, our prayers are in vain, for it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6).
Now, let us pray together in humility and faith, trusting in God’s perfect will and timing:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this dear sister who longs for a godly marriage. Lord, You know the desires of her heart, and we ask that You would align them with Your will. Father, we pray that You would prepare her heart for the husband You have ordained for her, if it is Your will. Teach her to trust in Your timing and to seek You above all else. Help her to find her worth and security in You alone, not in a relationship or marriage.
Lord, we ask that You would protect her from any relationships or influences that do not honor You. Guard her heart and mind from the enemy’s lies, which seek to distort Your design for marriage and intimacy. If there is any sin in her life, reveal it to her and lead her to repentance. Cleanse her and renew her spirit, that she may walk in purity and holiness before You.
Father, we pray for the man You have prepared for her, if it is Your will. Prepare his heart as well, that he may be a godly leader, a man after Your own heart. Draw them together in Your perfect timing, and let their union be a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. May their marriage be strong, built on Your Word, and a testimony to Your faithfulness.
Lord, we also pray for her family, friends, and pets. Protect them from harm and surround them with Your peace. Let Your presence be a shield around them, and may they all come to know You more deeply.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to her in a personal way. If she does not yet know You as her Savior, draw her to Yourself. Let her experience the love and grace that can only be found in Jesus Christ. May she surrender her life to You and walk in the fullness of Your purpose for her.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to seek the Lord with all your heart, not just for a husband, but for a deeper relationship with Him. Spend time in His Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers. Trust that He knows what is best for you and that His plans are always good. If you are not already part of a local church, we urge you to find one where you can grow in your faith and be surrounded by godly community. The Lord is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will direct your path.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
