Bless the Lord, for He is wise and He is just. He wants the absolute best for us.
Some times the things we desire are His will for us, but not in the way that we want them.
Those desires that consume us, that fill our mind and hearts night and day, taking His place, have become an idol.
The Lord wants to bless us lavishly, but He doesn't want us to be destroyed. The blessing will destroy us if we want it so badly that we allow it to become an idol, and therefore sin, because sin leads to death.
Yet, the anguish, the missing, the tearing heart, the mourning, the tears, the lack of sleep, the lack of eating all has its purpose.
The beautiful prayers of travail, the deep depths of pain from inner longing can become fervent prevailing...