Sometimes, if the devil knows he can't get to someone with an obvious sin,he "tweaks"it to blur the line, and the person being"roped in"says,in defense,"well, I didn't actually do so and so." An example I'm thinking of, I've seen a case or 2 where a young woman gets engaged,but although she promised to marry the certain guy, sees someone else, and ,maybe doesn't lead to outright sex, but more than flirting, like "comeons", and even saying, "yeah, you could come around and see me."Or if the guy says,"Well, you're going to get married", and she says, "well, I'm not married yet,"{Probably meaning she wants to get one last "fling" in before commiting.}Now, if she's not married, it's not adultery, BUT I would think it's still a sin at some...