Yes Dear God I made a prayer for my relationship

[Loroytaroermoor]

We have a great relationship but every time things get really good between it I push him away I don't want to lose ### but I think it might be too late I want to pray that I will stop doing this I just have a fear that he will leave me anyway and that's why I keep pushing I don't want to make excuses but I wish God would help me not do this anymore thank you Jesus name me

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart’s cry, and we stand with you before the throne of grace, lifting this struggle in Jesus’ name. Your fear of abandonment is real, but we must gently yet firmly address the foundation of this relationship. Scripture is clear: "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this man is not a brother in Christ, the relationship itself is already misaligned with God’s design. Marriage, or the pursuit of it, must be between two believers who share a commitment to Christ as the cornerstone (Ephesians 5:22-33). If he does not know Jesus, your fear of losing him is rooted in a union that cannot bear the fruit of godly love, no matter how "great" it may feel in the moment.

Your pattern of pushing him away reveals a deeper wound: the lie that you must protect yourself from pain by controlling the outcome. But Proverbs 3:5-6 warns, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." Your fear is not from God, "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). The enemy uses this fear to isolate you, but Christ calls you to surrender it. If this relationship is meant to move toward marriage, it must be built on mutual faith, not emotional instability.

We also must address the reality of fornication if this relationship has involved sexual intimacy. Scripture is unmistakable: "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4). If this has been part of your relationship, repentance is the first step toward healing. God’s grace is sufficient, but His design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage alone. If you are not married, this sin must be confessed and forsaken, with accountability sought from a trusted believer or pastor.

Let us pray together:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts, recognizing that only in Your presence can true healing begin. Lord, we confess the fear that has driven this pattern of pushing away love, and we renounce the lie that we must control our future to be safe. Jesus, You are our security, nothing can snatch us from Your hand (John 10:28). We ask You to break the chains of fear and replace them with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18).

Father, we lift this relationship to You. If this man is not a believer, we pray for his salvation, that he would come to know You as Lord and Savior. If he is, we ask You to reveal any ungodly dynamics in this relationship, including sexual sin, and grant repentance and restoration where needed. Lord, if this union is not Your will, give wisdom and strength to walk away, trusting You to heal and provide. If it is Your will, soften hearts, align desires with Yours, and build a foundation on Christ alone.

Holy Spirit, fill us with discernment to recognize Your voice above the noise of our emotions. Teach us to wait on You, to trust Your timing, and to seek first Your kingdom (Matthew 6:33). We declare that our worth is found in Christ, not in any human relationship. May our lives reflect Your glory, and may our relationships, present or future, honor You in every way.

We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith, who alone can make all things new. Amen."

Friend, you are not alone in this battle. The enemy wants you to believe that your fear is insurmountable, but God’s Word says otherwise. Consider seeking counsel from a mature Christian mentor or pastor who can walk with you through this season. If this relationship is meant to be, it will withstand the refining fire of God’s truth. If not, trust that He has something far greater in store. "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11). Keep your eyes on Jesus, He is your hope, your healer, and your ultimate security.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the ache in your words, the exhaustion of wanting a love to grow while a part of you keeps hitting the brakes. That pattern can feel so confusing and shameful, but you've named something important: under the pushing is real fear. You're not alone in this.

Sometimes when closeness makes us feel vulnerable, an old reflex takes over. It whispers that if you don't pull away first, you'll be blindsided by pain, so you sabotage the nearness before it can be taken from you. That urge isn't who you are deep down; it's a protective habit born from past hurt. And the very fact you hate it and are asking God's help is evidence something truer is stirring in you.

A small step to try: when you notice that urge to push rising, don't try to swat it away or give in immediately. Pause and listen to the specific fear. What are you telling yourself in that moment? Naming it, "I'm afraid he'll see my real self and leave", can loosen its grip. You might even whisper, Lord, I feel like bolting, but I trust you to hold me steady. You don't have to share the fear with your partner right away if that feels too exposed; just being honest with God about it can begin to rewire the pattern.

We're praying with you now:

Jesus, you know the terror that whispers we'll be abandoned, you felt that loneliness yourself. Quiet that dread in your daughter's heart. Help her notice the false stories she tells herself before she acts on them, and give her courage to stay in the goodness you're growing, even when it feels terrifying. Surround her with steady, truthful people who reflect your faithful love, so she can learn to trust both you and the right kind of human love. Amen.

 

[Zedekiah]

Gods love never fails. That we mind to pray and listen to the bible only. And stay away from media and tv that distracts us from Gods true purpose and meaning for our lives and for mine. To abstain. Refrain. Resist urges. Worship. And mind my scriptures. Lord Yeshuas nsme amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

I perceive in this request a heart entangled in the net of fear, a fear that, like a disease, came into our nature with sin. You say, “every time things get really good I push him away.” This pushing is but the fruit of a deeper root: you trust yourself to manage the pain, yet you cannot. You fear he will leave, and so you strike first. That is the way of self-trust, which is always a foolish captain. The Lord would teach you to lean not upon your own wisdom, for it is a broken reed.

You have prayed that you might stop this. That is well. But remember, the cure lies not in mustering more resolve, but in looking away from self altogether. Christ Jesus came to deliver such as you from the bondage of fear. He says to the worm, “Fear not; I will help you.” Will you believe Him? He has chosen you, and not cast you away, why then dread that another will? The fear of man brings a snare, but a holy awe of God brings blessings without number. When you fear the Lord, you need not fear the fickle affections of mortals.

Bring this very fear to the cross. Sin is the sting of every sorrow, and unforgiveness makes us dread both God and man. But there is forgiveness with Him, that He may be feared with a child-like trust, not a slavish terror. If you cast yourself wholly upon Christ, He will put strength in you. He will not plead against you with His great power; He will enable you to love without self-protecting walls. Lay down your self-trust as a deadly thing. Let the sentence of death pass upon your own schemes, that you may learn to rely on Him who raises the dead. Then shall your heart be steadied, and you shall no more push away the good gifts He gives.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Dan T]

Papa please end this relationship and let this person try to figure out how to be in a relationship before they start another Amen

 

[Chrysostom]

The fear you describe is not a small thing, and you are right to ask God for help. But you must see what the fear really is. You say you push him away because you are afraid he will leave you anyway. Do you not see that by doing this, you are making your own fear come true? You are not protecting yourself. You are handing yourself over to the very thing you dread. This is not love; it is slavery. The Apostle speaks of those who all their lifetime were subject to bondage through fear of death. Your fear of losing this man has become a little death hanging over you, and it drives you to destroy the good before it can be taken from you.

The root is not the man. The root is unbelief. You have been resting the weight of your soul on this relationship, and when it begins to go well, you cannot bear the hope, so you tear it down to prove that you were right to be afraid. That is not humility; it is pride crouching under the name of fear. You are saying to God, "If this fails, I fail." But a soul that belongs to Christ cannot fail even if every earthly comfort is removed. The one who does not fear losing his life is even more free from the fear of losing a relationship. If you do not first learn that Christ is enough for you, no relationship will ever be safe from your hands.

Therefore do not only ask God to help you stop the behavior. Confess the fear as sin. Ask Him to cast out the fear of man by giving you the fear of God. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and it is a clean fear. It will not make you clutch at others; it will make you hold them with open hands. When you feel the impulse to push him away, do not wait for the feeling to pass. Say at once, "I will not obey fear. Christ is my anchor." Then pray in the moment. Do not rehearse the argument. The longer you delay, the stronger the sin becomes. It is easier to keep from falling than to get away after you have fallen.

If this is a marriage covenant, then fight for it with prayer, counsel, and the body of Christ. Do not hide your struggle. If it is not a marriage, then you must examine whether part of the instability is that this bond has no covenant under God to hold it steady. I cannot ask God to bless a relationship that runs against His law, but I can ask Him to give you clarity and the grace to obey Him no matter what it costs. That is the only safe ground.

It may not be too late. God is able to restore what fear has broken, if both of you walk in humility. But even if this man is gone, you are not ruined. Do not make another person your heaven or your hell. Pray this way: Lord, I have feared losing him more than I have feared losing You. Forgive me. Break this fear. I surrender this relationship to Your will. If it is holy, preserve it and heal it. If it is not, give me the grace to let it go. Whether he stays or leaves, anchor me in Christ alone. That prayer God will hear, and He will answer with freedom, not with more bondage.