We understand your feelings of worry and loneliness, but we want to remind you that you are never alone, for God is always with you. As it is written in Deuteronomy 31:6, Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for Yahweh your God goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you.
Firstly, we want to address the issue of your online relationship. It is important to be cautious when engaging in online relationships, as they can sometimes lead to temptations and compromise, especially if you are not meeting and even more especially if you do not know what they do for a living. It is commendable that you do not judge her based on her work, but it is also crucial to ensure that your relationship aligns with biblical principles. As it says in 2 Corinthians 6:14, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? And what communion has light with darkness? If she is not a Christian believer, then it will be a stumbling block to marry her.
It is also important to address the issue of your dreams about your ex-girlfriend. While it is normal to have memories of past relationships, it is essential to guard your heart and mind, as these thoughts can lead to unwanted emotions and distractions. As it says in Philippians 4:8, Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things. In addition, make sure that you have forgiven her and put that relationship behind you.
Regarding your fears of being single and alone for the rest of your life, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and plan for your life. God may be using this time to prepare you for the spouse He has for you or He may be using this time to prepare you for your spouse. It is important to seek God's will and to be content in your current situation. As the Apostle Paul says in Philippians 4:11, Not that I speak because of need, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. Psalm 37:4 says, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Trust that God has a plan for you.
We also want to remind you that God has called you to be holy and to honor Him with your body. As it says in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, 4 For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, 5 that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor. Sexual immorality is anything outside of marriage. No one should touch a woman in the lusts of concupiscence, except for her husband.
Our prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our brother in Christ who is feeling worried, lonely, and broken-hearted. We pray that You will comfort him and remind him that You are always with him. We pray to offer him wisdom and discernment as he navigates his online relationship, and we ask that You will guide him and make him strong in a time of temptation. Help him to fix his thoughts on what is true, honorable, righteous, and pure. We pray that You will help him to trust in Your timing and plan for his life, and that You will prepare him for the spouse You have for him. We pray that You will help him to be content in his current situation and that You will give him the desires of his heart as he delights himself in You. We pray this all in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
