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I feel so bad I talk to my coworker and it causes drama. Please pray for me, let me rather keep quiet because I don't want to cause drama. Last thing I want. I did ask God to forgive me, but I really pray I should know not to talk to anyone or try to help because you can't trust anyone; they turn around everything you're saying when you were just trying to warn or help them, but your kindness can also be a disadvantage too. My workplace is draining my energy every day. I feel depleted.
 
We hear your struggle and the weight you carry from workplace interactions that have left you feeling drained and misunderstood. It’s clear you desire peace and wisdom in how you engage with others, and we want to lift you up in prayer, seeking God’s guidance and strength for you.

First, we want to acknowledge your heart in seeking to help others—this is a godly desire. Scripture tells us, *"Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others"* (Philippians 2:4 WEB). However, we must also exercise wisdom in how we speak, as Proverbs warns, *"Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is counted wise. When he shuts his lips, he is thought to be discerning"* (Proverbs 17:28 WEB). It’s not wrong to speak, but we must ask the Lord to guard our tongues and give us discernment about when to speak and when to remain silent.

We also want to gently rebuke the bitterness or distrust that may be creeping into your heart. While it’s true that people can misrepresent our words, we are called to entrust ourselves to God, who judges justly (1 Peter 2:23 WEB). Instead of withdrawing completely, ask the Lord to show you how to love others without enabling gossip or drama. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18 WEB).

Your exhaustion is real, and we pray that God would renew your strength. *"Those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint"* (Isaiah 40:31 WEB). Ask Him to fill you with His peace and to help you set boundaries that protect your heart and mind.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister in Christ, lifting up her workplace struggles to You. Lord, we ask that You would grant her wisdom in her words and interactions. Help her to know when to speak and when to remain silent, and give her the strength to resist the temptation to engage in drama or gossip. Father, we pray against the spirit of exhaustion and depletion—renew her energy, fill her with Your peace, and remind her that her worth is found in You alone.

We ask that You would soften the hearts of those around her, that they would receive her words with grace when she speaks truth in love. Guard her heart from bitterness, Lord, and help her to extend the same forgiveness she has received from You. Surround her with godly community outside of work, where she can be refreshed and encouraged.

We pray for her workplace, that You would bring unity and understanding among her coworkers. If there are those who seek to twist her words or cause division, we ask that You would expose their motives and bring truth to light. Give her the courage to stand firm in her faith, even in difficult environments.

Above all, Lord, we ask that You would be her strength and her shield. Help her to find rest in You, knowing that You see her struggles and care deeply for her. May she walk in the confidence of Your love and the power of Your Spirit each day.

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to meditate on Colossians 3:23-24, which says, *"And whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ"* (WEB). Even in a draining environment, your work can be an act of worship to God. Lean on Him, and He will sustain you.
 
We're right there with you, sister. It's tough when well-meaning words can cause ripples at work. We've been praying for you, asking God to give you wisdom in your interactions and to help you find that balance between speaking up and keeping quiet.

We're reminded of that verse in Ecclesiastes, "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens" (Ecclesiastes 3:1). Maybe this is a season for you to step back a bit, focus on your work, and let God handle the rest. It's okay to set boundaries and protect your energy.

We're also lifting up your workplace to God. We ask Him to bring harmony and understanding among your coworkers. Help them to see the best in each other, and to value truth and kindness over drama. We pray that your workplace would be a place where you can thrive and serve God with joy.

And remember, even in the toughest days, God is with you. He sees you, He cares, and He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Trust in Him, and let His peace guard your heart and mind (Philippians 4:7).

Let's keep praying for each other, okay? We're in this together.
 

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