We welcome you and are glad you’ve reached out to us for guidance in these important areas of your life. First, we want to gently address something vital: the name of Jesus Christ was not mentioned in your request. The Bible is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9-10). Without this foundation, no word of knowledge, prophecy, or prayer will bear eternal fruit in your life.
Now, let’s address your requests with the wisdom and direction of Scripture.
**Where to Live and Housing:**
The decision of where to live should be bathed in prayer and aligned with God’s will for your life. The Bible encourages us to seek God’s guidance in all things, trusting that He will direct our paths. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). If you are unsure where to live, we encourage you to pray for clarity and wisdom, asking God to open doors that align with His purposes. Consider factors such as proximity to a biblical church, opportunities for godly fellowship, and whether the location supports your ability to live righteously and serve the Lord. If you are struggling financially, remember that God is your provider. *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33, WEB). Trust that He will provide a place for you to live that honors Him.
**Relationships:**
We notice you mentioned "relationships" in your request, but we want to emphasize the biblical perspective on this topic. The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are seeking a relationship, we encourage you to pursue *courtship* with the intent of marriage, and only with someone who is a committed believer in Jesus Christ. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If you are currently in a relationship that does not align with these principles—such as dating an unbeliever, living together outside of marriage, or engaging in sexual immorality—we urge you to repent and realign your life with God’s Word. Sexual intimacy outside of marriage is fornication, and the Bible clearly states that *"the body is... for the Lord, and the Lord for the body"* (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB). Flee from sexual sin and honor God with your body, which is His temple (1 Corinthians 6:18-20).
If you are struggling with loneliness or the desire for companionship, we encourage you to seek fulfillment in Christ first. He alone can satisfy the deepest longings of your heart. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). Surround yourself with godly community in a Bible-believing church, and trust that if marriage is God’s will for you, He will provide a spouse in His perfect timing.
**Finances:**
Financial struggles can be overwhelming, but we serve a God who owns everything and delights in providing for His children. *"Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’... For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things"* (Matthew 6:31-32, WEB). We encourage you to bring your financial concerns to the Lord in prayer, asking for wisdom to steward your resources well. If you are in debt, seek godly counsel on how to manage it responsibly. Avoid the love of money, which is the root of all kinds of evil (1 Timothy 6:10), and instead, cultivate a heart of generosity and contentment. *"Having food and clothing, let’s be content with that"* (1 Timothy 6:8, WEB). Tithe faithfully, trusting God to bless your obedience (Malachi 3:10), and look for opportunities to work diligently, knowing that God honors honest labor (Colossians 3:23).
**Calling:**
Discovering your calling is a journey of seeking God’s face and surrendering your plans to His. Each believer is called to live for God’s glory, whether in ministry, the workplace, or the home. *"For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them"* (Ephesians 2:10, WEB). Spend time in prayer and Scripture, asking the Holy Spirit to reveal how He has gifted you to serve the body of Christ. If you are unsure, seek counsel from mature believers who can help you discern your spiritual gifts (1 Corinthians 12:4-11). Remember that your primary calling is to love God and love others (Matthew 22:37-39), and every other calling flows from that.
**Word of Knowledge or Prophetic Word:**
While we do not claim to have a specific "word of knowledge" for you, we can assure you that God speaks through His Word and His Spirit. If you are seeking a prophetic word, test everything against Scripture, for God will never contradict His written Word. *"Don’t quench the Spirit. Don’t despise prophecies. Test all things, and hold firmly that which is good"* (1 Thessalonians 5:19-21, WEB). Be cautious of anyone who claims to have a word from the Lord but does not align with biblical truth. The Holy Spirit will guide you into all truth (John 16:13), so remain rooted in Scripture and in prayer.
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Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, asking that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Lord, if they have not yet surrendered their life to Jesus Christ, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see the truth of the Gospel, that Christ died for their sins and rose again, and that by faith in Him alone they can be saved. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit and grant them a hunger for Your Word.
Father, we ask for Your wisdom and direction regarding where they should live. Provide them with a home that is safe, affordable, and conducive to their spiritual growth. Give them discernment as they make this decision, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
Lord, we pray for their relationships. If they are single, we ask that You would prepare them to be a godly spouse, and that You would bring a believer into their life who loves You and seeks to honor You in marriage. Convict them of any sin in their relationships, and give them the strength to flee from sexual immorality and unequally yoked partnerships. If they are struggling with loneliness, remind them that You are their portion and their joy, and surround them with godly community.
Father, we bring their finances before You. You are Jehovah Jireh, the Lord who provides. Meet their every need according to Your riches in glory. Give them wisdom to manage their resources well, and help them to trust in You rather than in wealth. Provide opportunities for them to work and to give generously, knowing that it is more blessed to give than to receive.
Lord, reveal their calling to them. Show them how You have gifted them to serve Your kingdom. Give them a heart that is fully surrendered to Your will, and use them mightily for Your glory. Remove any fear or doubt, and fill them with boldness to walk in the good works You have prepared for them.
Finally, Father, protect them from deception and false teachings. Let them be rooted and grounded in Your Word, and give them discernment to test every spirit. Speak to them through Your Scripture, and let them hear Your voice clearly.
We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.