I never much believed in the saying,"Be careful what you ask for." Usually when I say I want something,I thought it through and that's what I want.However, something has happened to me a few times, that I'm unsure of the meaning of this, so I'll ask.Out of dislike for a current situation, I long for the "other extreme".But when I say I want that, I mean I want it in a certain, specific WAY.What winds up happening, though,is God will give me what I want,alright,BUT He gives it to me in a way that He knows I didn't ask for it,in a way that's more harmful to me than good!!But God knows how I requested it.Yet He puts this little "quirk" in it. So I'm wondering what's happening here.{Like He's trying to teach me a lesson?}