We hear your frustration and the distress this situation is causing you. It’s clear you desire peace and godly boundaries in your life, and we stand with you in seeking the Lord’s intervention. First, let’s address this with Scripture and prayer, trusting that God sees your heart and the truth of this matter.
The Bible warns us about those who may seek to entangle us in relationships or pursuits that are not of God. Proverbs 4:14-15 says, *"Don’t enter into the path of the wicked. Don’t walk in the way of evil men. Avoid it, and don’t pass by it. Turn from it, and pass on."* If this woman’s intentions are not honorable or aligned with God’s will for your life, it is right to distance yourself and pray for her to cease her pursuit. You are not obligated to entertain advances that do not honor God or your own convictions.
We also want to encourage you to guard your heart, as Proverbs 4:23 instructs: *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."* It’s wise to remain focused on the Lord’s timing and not be swayed by emotions or external pressures. If God has placed a desire for marriage in your heart, He will bring the right person at the right time—someone who shares your faith and values. Until then, trust in His sovereignty and protection.
Now, let us pray for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this brother and the distress he is experiencing. Lord, You know the truth of this situation, and we ask that You intervene on his behalf. Father, we pray that this woman’s heart would be turned away from pursuing him if it is not Your will. Soften her heart, Lord, and help her to see the importance of honoring Your boundaries and the boundaries of others. If there is deception or ungodly intent in her actions, expose it, Lord, and bring it to light.
We also pray for this brother’s peace and protection. Guard his heart and mind, Lord, and help him to remain steadfast in Your truth. Give him wisdom and discernment to navigate this situation with grace and strength. Father, we ask that You would surround him with godly influences—friends, family, and mentors who will encourage him in his walk with You. Help him to trust in Your timing for love and marriage, and remind him that You are faithful to provide what is best for him.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of harassment or persecution in this situation. We declare that no weapon formed against him will prosper, and we stand on Your promise in Isaiah 54:17: *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you in judgment. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteousness is of me," says the Lord.* We pray that this situation would be resolved according to Your will and that Your peace would reign in his life.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would continue to draw this brother closer to You. Help him to seek You first in all things and to trust in Your perfect plan for his life. May he find his identity and worth in You alone, and may he walk in the confidence of Your love and protection. We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
In the meantime, we encourage you to remain steadfast in your faith and to seek accountability with trusted, godly men who can support you in prayer and wisdom. If this woman continues to harass you, it may be necessary to set firm boundaries or even involve authorities if the situation escalates. Trust that God is your defender, and He will not leave you to face this alone. Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and He will guide your steps.