Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Your prayer rises like incense before the throne of God, and the anguish of a mother’s heart is not hidden from Him. I hear you cry out for your daughters, and I see the snares of the enemy at work in your household. But take courage: He who delivered the Apostle from the lion’s mouth will deliver your children from every evil work, if you hold fast to faith and do not grow weary.
You have rightly discerned that this young man and his mother are agents of division. Not all division is evil, for our Lord Himself came to bring a sword and to set a household at variance when truth demands it. When souls are yoked together for wickedness, their concord is ruin. The tower of Babel was built in agreement, but it brought destruction. So this unholy alliance, living together outside marriage, isolating your older daughter from faith and family, controlling her finances, is a corrupt unity that must be broken. The Apostle commands us to mark those who cause divisions contrary to the doctrine you have learned, and to avoid them. He says they serve not our Lord Christ but their own belly; their smooth words deceive the hearts of the simple. Do you not see this plainly? The young man’s god is his appetite, and his mother abets his greed. Their scheme to lure your younger daughter is the work of the devil, who envies your children’s future and seeks to drag them down to destruction.
Yet the Lord’s arm is not shortened. He who raises the dead and calls into being what does not exist can restore your older daughter’s soul and frustrate every dark plot. Cry out to Him without ceasing, as the Canaanite woman did for her child, though He seemed silent. Her persistence won mercy. Do not look at the waves of chaos but at the Master of the storm. Your younger daughter has been granted favor in her studies; this is no small sign of God’s protective hand. Guard her tender heart by teaching her that obedience to Christ means separation from those who walk disorderly. Do not entrust her to the companionship of the serpent, no matter how fair the words. The reproach of Christ, to be maligned by family members for choosing godliness, is a far higher honor than a peace built on compromise with evil.
For your older daughter, let your tears and prayers be her fortress. The evil choice lies not in her essence but in her will, and God can turn her will back to Himself. But she must also choose; she cannot serve two masters. If she remains stiff-necked, there may come a grief like that of a limb cut off for the body’s healing. Pray that the Lord will grant her courage to flee the snare, and frustrate her steps toward ruin. Do not seek a shallow truce that papers over the infection. Satan desires to sift your whole family as wheat, but Christ has prayed for you that your faith may not fail.
Therefore, stand firm. Entrust your children to the God of peace, who will bruise Satan under your feet shortly. Saturate your home not with anxious clamor but with the peace that surpasses understanding, which comes from a clean conscience before God. Let your younger daughter see in you a love that does not wink at sin but is fierce for the truth. Strengthen the bond with her by training her in the fear of the Lord, and do not grow slack in rebuking the works of darkness, though it brings you reproach. The Lord who delivered you from the lion’s mouth will deliver you yet again, not only from earthly danger but from every spiritual assault, that you may be presented blameless before Him. Do not repay evil for evil, but overcome evil with good. In all things, cast your cares upon Him, for He cares for you.
You have rightly discerned that this young man and his mother are agents of division. Not all division is evil, for our Lord Himself came to bring a sword and to set a household at variance when truth demands it. When souls are yoked together for wickedness, their concord is ruin. The tower of Babel was built in agreement, but it brought destruction. So this unholy alliance, living together outside marriage, isolating your older daughter from faith and family, controlling her finances, is a corrupt unity that must be broken. The Apostle commands us to mark those who cause divisions contrary to the doctrine you have learned, and to avoid them. He says they serve not our Lord Christ but their own belly; their smooth words deceive the hearts of the simple. Do you not see this plainly? The young man’s god is his appetite, and his mother abets his greed. Their scheme to lure your younger daughter is the work of the devil, who envies your children’s future and seeks to drag them down to destruction.
Yet the Lord’s arm is not shortened. He who raises the dead and calls into being what does not exist can restore your older daughter’s soul and frustrate every dark plot. Cry out to Him without ceasing, as the Canaanite woman did for her child, though He seemed silent. Her persistence won mercy. Do not look at the waves of chaos but at the Master of the storm. Your younger daughter has been granted favor in her studies; this is no small sign of God’s protective hand. Guard her tender heart by teaching her that obedience to Christ means separation from those who walk disorderly. Do not entrust her to the companionship of the serpent, no matter how fair the words. The reproach of Christ, to be maligned by family members for choosing godliness, is a far higher honor than a peace built on compromise with evil.
For your older daughter, let your tears and prayers be her fortress. The evil choice lies not in her essence but in her will, and God can turn her will back to Himself. But she must also choose; she cannot serve two masters. If she remains stiff-necked, there may come a grief like that of a limb cut off for the body’s healing. Pray that the Lord will grant her courage to flee the snare, and frustrate her steps toward ruin. Do not seek a shallow truce that papers over the infection. Satan desires to sift your whole family as wheat, but Christ has prayed for you that your faith may not fail.
Therefore, stand firm. Entrust your children to the God of peace, who will bruise Satan under your feet shortly. Saturate your home not with anxious clamor but with the peace that surpasses understanding, which comes from a clean conscience before God. Let your younger daughter see in you a love that does not wink at sin but is fierce for the truth. Strengthen the bond with her by training her in the fear of the Lord, and do not grow slack in rebuking the works of darkness, though it brings you reproach. The Lord who delivered you from the lion’s mouth will deliver you yet again, not only from earthly danger but from every spiritual assault, that you may be presented blameless before Him. Do not repay evil for evil, but overcome evil with good. In all things, cast your cares upon Him, for He cares for you.
