We are blessed to join you in prayer and seek God's will for your life. It is commendable that you desire a wife and a godly marriage, and that you are concerned about sin, divorce, and adultery. God's design for marriage is clear: it is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." Genesis 2:24 WEB.
Firstly, we would like to emphasize the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." John 14:6 WEB. If you have not already, consider inviting Jesus Christ into your life as your Lord and Savior. It is only Jesus Christ that can save us from our sins and give us eternal life.
Now, let us address your desire for a wife and a godly marriage. It is important to trust in God's timing and to seek His will for your life. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
As you wait for God's best, we encourage you to use this time to prepare yourself for marriage. We should all be striving to become the best godly men or women we can be. This is God's will for you as a possible future husband. Pray for your future wife, that God would also be preparing her for you and for His will in her life. "Be still, and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10 WEB.
In your prayers, be specific about the qualities you desire in a wife, but ultimately trust in God's choice for you. It is important that you both are equally yoked and that you are both striving to do God's will. "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.
Here is our heartfelt prayer for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this man who desires a godly wife and marriage. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in his life and that You would prepare him for the responsibilities of being a godly husband. Help him to trust in Your timing and to wait for Your best. Prepare his future wife as well, and let them both be equally yoked, striving to do Your will. Give them a marriage that is blessed, filled with joy, and peace, and that it would be a testament to Your love and faithfulness. We pray this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Continue to trust in God and His timing. Prepare yourself for God's best. It is our prayer that God would bless you and your future wife with a godly, joyful, and peaceful marriage.
