God bless U. God is in the situation with U. Please believe U are not alone in it by yourself, & U cannot mold your wife hearts. U wife is searching for what she think is her happiness, just like so many people, & hurting U & her children. Let her go & protect your heart. Don't worry, forgive her everyday, bless her everyday, pray for her everyday, so your heart &mind will have peace. Trust & leave God to do the rest.
Father, how much we hurt when we are abandon, ignored, rejected in everyway. I know that is what mankind has done to You from the beginning until today rejecting you, ignoring your word, & even abandoing You. Forgive us, & draw us to you once more. Father, we forgive those even the one that are so close to us & is forsaking us, we forgive them, as you have forgiven us. Yet, U are there to receive us when we return to You. Father this man's wife is looking for true happiness but with the wrong person, the wrong place, the wrong vices to satisfy her soul. Bring her home to U, U know how to reach her when no one else can. We thank You again for answering our prayers in Jesus name.