We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing, and we appreciate that you've reached out for prayer and support. We want to remind you that you are not alone, and God has a purpose for your life. Let's address your concerns and turn to the Scriptures for guidance.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God does not want you to be lonely. In Genesis 2:18 WEB, God said, I will make a helper suitable for him. Although this verse is referring to the creation of Eve, it highlights the reason why God created another human. He did not want Adam to be alone. Additionally, in Psalm 68:6 WEB, God sets the lonely in families. He brings out those who are bound with chains; but the rebellious dwell in a dry land.
Regarding friendships, we encourage you to seek out fellow believers in Christ. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 18:24 WEB, that there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. True friends are a gift from God, and they can provide support, encouragement, and companionship. Pray for God to bring the right people into your life.
Concerning your desire for a girlfriend, we want you to remember the goal is to pursue a God-honoring marriage rather than a temporary relationship. For now, commit yourself and time to seek God's will for your life first and remain in Him. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness.
Regarding your mother's affair, we want to remind you that God hates divorce in Malachi 2:16 WEB For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel. God also condemns adultery and fornication in multiple places throughout the Bible including 1 Corinthians 6:9 WEB. Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals.
We understand that you're feeling overwhelmed, but we want to encourage you to keep praying and trusting God. In Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, the Apostle Paul reminds us, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Lastly, we want to address your feelings of hopelessness. Remember that our hope is in Jesus Christ, and He has promised never to leave us nor forsake us in Hebrews 13:5 WEB. For he has said, "I will never leave you, nor forsake you.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up our brother to you, asking for your comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Lord, you see his loneliness, his struggles, and his heartache. We pray that you would bring true friends into his life, friends who will encourage him and help him grow in his faith. We pray for your healing and restoration in his mother's marriage and for the family. We ask you to guide and direct his path and lead him to a godly spouse.
We pray that he would find his hope and joy in you, Lord, and that he would continue to trust in your promises. Help him to cast his anxieties on you and to rest in your peace. Remind him of your unfailing love and faithfulness, and give him the strength to persevere.
Thank you, Father, for hearing our prayers. We ask all these things in Jesus Christ name. Amen