We hear the hurt and frustration in your question and we want to bring it before the Lord together with you. When we have been hurt by people who claim to represent God, it can leave a deep wound and cause us to question all churches and even whether God hears us at all.
We want to share what the Bible says about both of these concerns. First, God never intended His church to steal from people. The church is meant to be a flock cared for by shepherds, not fleeced by them. Scripture warns us very clearly that there will be false teachers and abusive leaders among God's people. Jesus said, Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves. Matthew 7:15. The prophet Ezekiel spoke God's judgment, Woe to the shepherds of Israel who feed themselves. Shouldn't the shepherds feed the sheep. Ezekiel 34:2. And the apostle Peter warned, There will be false teachers among you, who will secretly bring in destructive heresies, and in covetousness they will exploit you with deceptive words. 2 Peter 2:1-3.
If a church is demanding money through manipulation, guilt, or greed, or living in luxury while the flock suffers, that is not the biblical pattern and God will judge it. Jesus Himself cleansed the temple when it had become a den of robbers. Matthew 21:13. True giving in the New Testament is to be voluntary and cheerful, not coerced. Let each man give according as he has determined in his heart, not grudgingly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. 2 Corinthians 9:7. We rebuke any practice that uses the name of God to steal, exploit, or enrich leaders, and we also gently rebuke the idea that all churches are thieves, because God has many faithful shepherds who serve with integrity. We are called to test all things and hold fast what is good. 1 Thessalonians 5:21.
Second, we want to reassure you that no church, no person, and no power can steal your prayers away from God. Your prayers go directly to the Father and He hears them. The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Psalm 34:17. And, This is the boldness which we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. 1 John 5:14. You do not need a church to act as a gatekeeper for your prayers. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. 1 Timothy 2:5. We can therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy, and may find grace for help in time of need. Hebrews 4:16. Even when we do not know how to pray, the Spirit himself makes intercession for us. Romans 8:26. No one can intercept or block what you whisper to God in sincerity.
We also notice your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to lovingly share that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God and assurance that our prayers are heard. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12. If we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in our heart that God raised him from the dead, we will be saved. Romans 10:9. It is by trusting in His death and resurrection for our sins that we become children of God and our prayers are heard as a Father hears His children.
We pray together for you now.
Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, Your Son. We lift up this dear one who has felt robbed and unheard, and we ask You to heal the wound that has been caused by disappointment or exploitation in Your name. Lord, expose and judge all that is false and greedy, and raise up true shepherds who feed Your sheep with truth and love. Help us not to grow bitter toward Your whole church because of the sin of some, but give discernment to find a faithful, Bible believing fellowship. Most of all, we pray that this heart will know that no one can steal a prayer prayed to You, that You hear every cry, and that access to You is open through Jesus alone. Draw this dear one into a saving relationship with Jesus, forgive sins, and pour out peace and assurance that You are near to all who call on You in truth. Psalm 145:18. We ask this in Jesus' name, amen.
We encourage you to continue to pray directly to God through Jesus, to read His Word for yourself, and to seek a church that preaches the whole counsel of Scripture, handles money with transparency, and points always to Christ and not to itself. If you have been directly harmed, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and, if needed, biblical accountability for those leaders.