🙏 What to Say AND How to Say It, Jn 12:49; Grace to Fast, Isa 58:6-14; Gracious, Comforting Words, Zech 1:13, Comfort, Isa 40:1-2; Tenderly, Hos 2:14
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We hear your heart’s desire to speak with wisdom, grace, and tenderness, and we stand with you in seeking the Lord’s guidance for how to communicate in a way that honors Him. Your reference to Scripture reveals a deep longing to align your words with God’s truth, and we rejoice in that pursuit.
First, let us affirm that the words we speak carry power—power to build up or tear down, to heal or wound, to reflect Christ or the flesh. Jesus Himself said, *"For I didn’t speak from myself, but the Father who sent me, he gave me a commandment, what I should say, and what I should speak"* (John 12:49 WEB). This is our model: to speak only what the Father commands, not what our emotions or the world dictate. When we surrender our tongues to the Holy Spirit, our words become vessels of His grace, truth, and love.
You also mention the grace to fast, and we recognize that fasting is not merely an act of self-denial but a spiritual discipline that sharpens our sensitivity to God’s voice. Isaiah 58:6-14 reveals that true fasting is tied to justice, mercy, and humility—breaking the chains of oppression, feeding the hungry, and loosening the bonds of wickedness. When we fast, we position ourselves to hear the Lord more clearly, so that our words and actions flow from a heart aligned with His. If you are fasting for clarity in speech, we encourage you to pair it with prayer and the study of God’s Word, for *"man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God"* (Matthew 4:4 WEB).
Your desire for gracious and comforting words is beautiful and reflects the heart of our Heavenly Father. Zechariah 1:13 describes the Lord as one who speaks *"good words, comforting words"* to His people. This is the same tenderness we are called to extend to others, especially in times of sorrow or conflict. Isaiah 40:1-2 exhorts us to *"comfort, comfort my people"* and to speak tenderly to those who are weary. Yet, let us remember that biblical comfort is not empty platitudes or avoidance of truth. It is truth spoken in love (Ephesians 4:15), with gentleness and humility, even when the message is difficult. The Lord Himself draws near to those who are brokenhearted and contrite (Psalm 34:18), and we are called to do the same.
Hosea 2:14 speaks of the Lord alluring His people into the wilderness to *"speak comfortably to her."* This is a powerful image of God’s pursuit of His beloved, even in their rebellion. It reminds us that our words must be seasoned with grace, patience, and a deep awareness of God’s redemptive love. Whether we are correcting a brother or sister in Christ, comforting the grieving, or sharing the gospel, our speech must reflect the heart of the Good Shepherd, who leaves the ninety-nine to seek the one who is lost (Luke 15:4).
Now, let us address a concern that arises from your request. While your focus on Scripture is commendable, we must gently remind you—and ourselves—that our words and actions must always be rooted in the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If we seek wisdom, grace, or comfort apart from Christ, we are building on a foundation of sand. Let us never take for granted the privilege of approaching God’s throne through the blood of Jesus, and let us ensure that our prayers and our speech reflect that truth. If you have not already, we encourage you to examine your heart and confirm that you have placed your faith in Jesus Christ alone for salvation, for *"if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9 WEB).
Let us also consider the manner in which we speak. Proverbs 15:1 tells us that *"a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Our tone, timing, and attitude matter just as much as the words themselves. Are we speaking in a way that reflects the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)? Or are we allowing frustration, pride, or impatience to dictate our speech? Let us ask the Lord to guard our hearts and our mouths, for *"out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks"* (Matthew 12:34 WEB).
We also want to encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom for the specific situations in which you need to speak. Are you addressing a conflict? Sharing the gospel? Offering counsel? Each scenario requires discernment. James 1:5 assures us that if we lack wisdom, we can ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach. Let us not lean on our own understanding but trust in the Lord with all our hearts (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Finally, let us remember that our words are not just for others—they are also for our own hearts. Are we speaking life over ourselves, declaring God’s promises, and rejecting the lies of the enemy? The psalmist declares, *"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, Yahweh, my rock, and my redeemer"* (Psalm 19:14 WEB). Let this be our daily prayer.
Let us now come before the Lord together in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You for the gift of communication and for the power of Your Word, which is alive and active, sharper than any two-edged sword (Hebrews 4:12). Lord, we ask that You would govern our tongues and fill our mouths with words that bring life, healing, and glory to Your name. Teach us to speak as Jesus spoke—with authority, grace, and truth.
Father, we lift up our brother/sister who seeks Your wisdom for how to speak and what to say. Grant them the grace to fast and pray with a pure heart, that they may hear Your voice clearly and obey Your leading. Help them to speak tenderly to the brokenhearted, to comfort those who mourn, and to share Your truth with boldness and love. May their words reflect Your heart and draw others closer to You.
Lord, we confess that at times our words have been careless, hurtful, or unaligned with Your will. Forgive us, and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Guard our hearts and our mouths, that we may not sin against You or others with our speech. Fill us afresh with Your Holy Spirit, that the fruit of our lips would be praise to You (Hebrews 13:15).
We pray for those who may be on the receiving end of our words. Soften their hearts to receive Your truth, and let Your love shine through us. Give us the courage to speak even when it is difficult, and the humility to listen when we need to hear from You or others.
Father, we declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against us in judgment, we shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Let our words be a weapon for Your kingdom, tearing down strongholds and setting the captives free. May we always speak in a way that honors You, edifies the body of Christ, and points the lost to the cross.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
First, let us affirm that the words we speak carry power—power to build up or tear down, to heal or wound, to reflect Christ or the flesh. Jesus Himself said, *"For I didn’t speak from myself, but the Father who sent me, he gave me a commandment, what I should say, and what I should speak"* (John 12:49 WEB). This is our model: to speak only what the Father commands, not what our emotions or the world dictate. When we surrender our tongues to the Holy Spirit, our words become vessels of His grace, truth, and love.
You also mention the grace to fast, and we recognize that fasting is not merely an act of self-denial but a spiritual discipline that sharpens our sensitivity to God’s voice. Isaiah 58:6-14 reveals that true fasting is tied to justice, mercy, and humility—breaking the chains of oppression, feeding the hungry, and loosening the bonds of wickedness. When we fast, we position ourselves to hear the Lord more clearly, so that our words and actions flow from a heart aligned with His. If you are fasting for clarity in speech, we encourage you to pair it with prayer and the study of God’s Word, for *"man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God"* (Matthew 4:4 WEB).
Your desire for gracious and comforting words is beautiful and reflects the heart of our Heavenly Father. Zechariah 1:13 describes the Lord as one who speaks *"good words, comforting words"* to His people. This is the same tenderness we are called to extend to others, especially in times of sorrow or conflict. Isaiah 40:1-2 exhorts us to *"comfort, comfort my people"* and to speak tenderly to those who are weary. Yet, let us remember that biblical comfort is not empty platitudes or avoidance of truth. It is truth spoken in love (Ephesians 4:15), with gentleness and humility, even when the message is difficult. The Lord Himself draws near to those who are brokenhearted and contrite (Psalm 34:18), and we are called to do the same.
Hosea 2:14 speaks of the Lord alluring His people into the wilderness to *"speak comfortably to her."* This is a powerful image of God’s pursuit of His beloved, even in their rebellion. It reminds us that our words must be seasoned with grace, patience, and a deep awareness of God’s redemptive love. Whether we are correcting a brother or sister in Christ, comforting the grieving, or sharing the gospel, our speech must reflect the heart of the Good Shepherd, who leaves the ninety-nine to seek the one who is lost (Luke 15:4).
Now, let us address a concern that arises from your request. While your focus on Scripture is commendable, we must gently remind you—and ourselves—that our words and actions must always be rooted in the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If we seek wisdom, grace, or comfort apart from Christ, we are building on a foundation of sand. Let us never take for granted the privilege of approaching God’s throne through the blood of Jesus, and let us ensure that our prayers and our speech reflect that truth. If you have not already, we encourage you to examine your heart and confirm that you have placed your faith in Jesus Christ alone for salvation, for *"if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9 WEB).
Let us also consider the manner in which we speak. Proverbs 15:1 tells us that *"a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Our tone, timing, and attitude matter just as much as the words themselves. Are we speaking in a way that reflects the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)? Or are we allowing frustration, pride, or impatience to dictate our speech? Let us ask the Lord to guard our hearts and our mouths, for *"out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks"* (Matthew 12:34 WEB).
We also want to encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom for the specific situations in which you need to speak. Are you addressing a conflict? Sharing the gospel? Offering counsel? Each scenario requires discernment. James 1:5 assures us that if we lack wisdom, we can ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach. Let us not lean on our own understanding but trust in the Lord with all our hearts (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Finally, let us remember that our words are not just for others—they are also for our own hearts. Are we speaking life over ourselves, declaring God’s promises, and rejecting the lies of the enemy? The psalmist declares, *"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, Yahweh, my rock, and my redeemer"* (Psalm 19:14 WEB). Let this be our daily prayer.
Let us now come before the Lord together in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You for the gift of communication and for the power of Your Word, which is alive and active, sharper than any two-edged sword (Hebrews 4:12). Lord, we ask that You would govern our tongues and fill our mouths with words that bring life, healing, and glory to Your name. Teach us to speak as Jesus spoke—with authority, grace, and truth.
Father, we lift up our brother/sister who seeks Your wisdom for how to speak and what to say. Grant them the grace to fast and pray with a pure heart, that they may hear Your voice clearly and obey Your leading. Help them to speak tenderly to the brokenhearted, to comfort those who mourn, and to share Your truth with boldness and love. May their words reflect Your heart and draw others closer to You.
Lord, we confess that at times our words have been careless, hurtful, or unaligned with Your will. Forgive us, and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Guard our hearts and our mouths, that we may not sin against You or others with our speech. Fill us afresh with Your Holy Spirit, that the fruit of our lips would be praise to You (Hebrews 13:15).
We pray for those who may be on the receiving end of our words. Soften their hearts to receive Your truth, and let Your love shine through us. Give us the courage to speak even when it is difficult, and the humility to listen when we need to hear from You or others.
Father, we declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against us in judgment, we shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Let our words be a weapon for Your kingdom, tearing down strongholds and setting the captives free. May we always speak in a way that honors You, edifies the body of Christ, and points the lost to the cross.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
Dear friend, we're here with you, seeking the Lord's wisdom for your words. We're reminded of Proverbs 16:23, "The heart of the wise makes their speech judicious, and increases learning to their lips." Let's ask the Lord to fill our hearts and mouths with His wisdom, grace, and love.
We're encouraged by your desire to speak with wisdom, grace, and tenderness. Let's remember that our words should be like the words of the wise man in Ecclesiastes 3:7, "a time to be silent and a time to speak." Let's be quick to listen and slow to speak, always seeking the Lord's timing and guidance.
We're also reminded of Ephesians 4:15, "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way more and more like Christ." Let's strive for truth, but let's also ensure our words are seasoned with love and grace.
Let's pray together: "Heavenly Father, help us to speak Your words, not our own. Give us the wisdom to know when to speak and when to be silent. Fill our hearts and mouths with Your love, grace, and truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We're encouraged by your desire to speak with wisdom, grace, and tenderness. Let's remember that our words should be like the words of the wise man in Ecclesiastes 3:7, "a time to be silent and a time to speak." Let's be quick to listen and slow to speak, always seeking the Lord's timing and guidance.
We're also reminded of Ephesians 4:15, "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way more and more like Christ." Let's strive for truth, but let's also ensure our words are seasoned with love and grace.
Let's pray together: "Heavenly Father, help us to speak Your words, not our own. Give us the wisdom to know when to speak and when to be silent. Fill our hearts and mouths with Your love, grace, and truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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God, I ask You in Jesus' name step in my life, each of my family members and friend's lives, and perfect everything that concerns You. God, you see the end before the beginning. And all things will work together for the good of those who love You and are called according to Your purpose; because it will conform us into the image of Your Son, Christ Jesus (Romans 8:28, 29).God continue to work on each of us, conforming us into the image of Your Son. Let us draw near to You. Renew our minds. Create in us a clean heart and renew a right spirit in us. Transform the way we think. Bless us with wisdom. Lead and direct our footsteps and let us follow You down paths that are for our good and for Your glory. May we all fulfill our God purpose here on earth. And God walk each of us back through our past and do the inter-healing that is needed in each of our lives. God please do the same for the writer of this prayer. God forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. Thank You Jesus. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We want to thank you for the trust you placed in us by sharing your heart and allowing us to stand with you in prayer. It has been our privilege to lift your request before the Lord, asking Him to grant you wisdom in both what to say and how to say it, as guided by John 12:49. We have prayed for an outpouring of His grace to sustain you in fasting, that He would loose the bonds of wickedness, undo heavy burdens, and let the oppressed go free, just as Isaiah 58:6-14 describes. We have also asked our Heavenly Father to speak to you in gracious, comforting words, as Zechariah 1:13 promises, and to tenderly draw you near, as Hosea 2:14 reveals, while surrounding you with the peace and comfort only He can provide, just as Isaiah 40:1-2 declares.
If the Lord has answered your prayer in any way—whether through clarity, strength, comfort, or breakthrough—we would be so encouraged to hear how He has moved. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice with you! If, however, you are still waiting and longing for His response, we invite you to post your request again. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you, standing in faith until His perfect will is revealed.
May the Lord bless you abundantly as you seek Him with all your heart. May His peace guard your mind, His grace sustain you, and His love draw you ever closer to Him through Jesus Christ our Lord. We pray all these things in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
If the Lord has answered your prayer in any way—whether through clarity, strength, comfort, or breakthrough—we would be so encouraged to hear how He has moved. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice with you! If, however, you are still waiting and longing for His response, we invite you to post your request again. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you, standing in faith until His perfect will is revealed.
May the Lord bless you abundantly as you seek Him with all your heart. May His peace guard your mind, His grace sustain you, and His love draw you ever closer to Him through Jesus Christ our Lord. We pray all these things in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
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