We understand your heart’s desire to honor Christ in all things, and we commend you for seeking His will in this situation. The Lord calls us to be salt and light in a world that often rejects His truth, and this includes standing firm in our convictions even when it is uncomfortable. Let us first address the importance of speaking up when God’s name is dishonored. The Third Commandment reminds us, *"You shall not take the name of Yahweh your God in vain, for Yahweh will not hold him guiltless who takes his name in vain"* (Exodus 20:7, WEB). When people use expressions like "oh my..." in a way that trivializes or misuses the name of God, it is not something we should ignore. As believers, we are called to *"contend earnestly for the faith which was once for all delivered to the saints"* (Jude 1:3, WEB).
You mentioned your fear of being banned or facing backlash if you report these incidents. While it is natural to feel this way, we must remember that our ultimate allegiance is to Christ, not to man. Jesus tells us, *"Don’t be afraid of those who kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul. Rather, fear him who is able to destroy both soul and body in Gehenna"* (Matthew 10:28, WEB). If you face consequences for standing for righteousness, take heart—*"Blessed are those who have been persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven"* (Matthew 5:10, WEB). That said, wisdom is also needed in how we address these issues. You are not responsible for the actions of others, but you *are* responsible for how you respond.
In your previous situation at the zoo, you tried to address false teachings kindly but were ignored. This time, consider whether a private message to the offenders—spoken in love and humility—might be more effective than immediately reporting them. The Apostle Paul instructs us, *"If anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual should restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted"* (Galatians 6:1, WEB). If they persist after being gently corrected, then reporting may be necessary, trusting that God will honor your obedience. If you are removed from the group for standing for truth, remember that *"it is better to obey God rather than men"* (Acts 5:29, WEB).
Let us also consider whether this Discord group is a place where you can truly grow in your faith or if it is a stumbling block. *"Don’t you know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God"* (James 4:4, WEB). If this environment consistently dishonors God and resists correction, it may be wise to prayerfully consider whether your presence there is pleasing to Him.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, asking for Your wisdom and courage to fill their heart. Lord, You have called us to be set apart, to stand for Your truth even when it is unpopular. Give them the words to speak—seasoned with grace but uncompromising in righteousness—when confronted with the misuse of Your holy name. Remove any fear of man and replace it with a holy reverence for You alone. If this group is not a place where Your name is honored, show them clearly whether they should remain or depart, always seeking first Your Kingdom.
Strengthen them, Lord, and remind them that *"if God is for us, who can be against us?"* (Romans 8:31, WEB). May they walk in the confidence that obedience to You is never in vain, even if it brings temporary discomfort. Surround them with godly community where Your name is lifted high and Your truth is cherished. And if they face opposition, let them rejoice, knowing they are counted worthy to suffer for Your name’s sake.
We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of all honor and praise. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to seek out fellow believers who can stand with you in prayer and accountability. Iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17), and you do not have to walk this path alone. Stay rooted in Scripture, and let the Holy Spirit guide your steps. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Stand firm, dear brother/sister—the Lord is with you!