What do you love so much to hurt me in order to experience the thing that you want?
What hurts you so much that you feel you have to hurt me in order to heal it?
Very profound questions from Neale Donald Walsh who sais that UNDERSTANDING is even more profound that FORGIVENESS. My observation: forgiveness is done on the Cross, it is finished, so its like you dont have to even forgive, but to understand. You have little children that do stupid things (like 3 years old) and you will not tell them I FORGIVE YOU but you will UNDERSTAND. The child is not able to understand your words i forgive you, also is useless to him. You will even comfort the child because sometimes they are instinctively afraid that they have done something wrong because they see others are upset etc...We are those children of God. We must grow and evolve into the state that we are not even forced to forgive but to expand to the level to even UNDERSTAND others hurtful acts. That covers it all. Also many people say i forgive you, but they mention the hurt every now and then. When you mention it, it is probably not forigven, because it is not understood. God understands our every move and sin, and we are like little elephants in the glassstore doing dammage not knowing it sometimes until someone tells us, sometimes until God speaks to us or until circumstances push us to see. So we should also look at other people with that understanding and move from a lower level of forgiveness to a higher level of understanding and complete unconditional love. I call it also WISDOM. Love from the other side of this material world with complete spiritual wisdom and understanding. Oh, Lord, help us all!!
Matthew 22:37-40 King James Version (KJV)
37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38 This is the first and great commandment.
39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
My observation:
You are either hurt or you love something else or someone else more then God when you do hurtful things to others.
1 Corinthians 13 King James Version (KJV)
13 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.
10 But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
King James Version (KJV)
It Is Finished
John 19:28-30
28 After this, Jesus, [a]knowing that all things were now accomplished, that the Scripture might be fulfilled, said, “I thirst!” 29 Now a vessel full of sour wine was sitting there; and they filled a sponge with sour wine, put it on hyssop, and put it to His mouth. 30 So when Jesus had received the sour wine, He said, “It is finished!” And bowing His head, He gave up His spirit.
(What is finished? Forgiveness, unconditonal love for us from God that we as sons and daughter of God should through the spirit of wisdom and understanding spread throughout the world. Understanding and revelation are the only way to forgive. So pray for the spirit of wisdom and understanding when someone hurts you. )
King James Bible Luke 23:34
Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots.
King James Bible Hebrews 8:12
For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more.
What hurts you so much that you feel you have to hurt me in order to heal it?
Very profound questions from Neale Donald Walsh who sais that UNDERSTANDING is even more profound that FORGIVENESS. My observation: forgiveness is done on the Cross, it is finished, so its like you dont have to even forgive, but to understand. You have little children that do stupid things (like 3 years old) and you will not tell them I FORGIVE YOU but you will UNDERSTAND. The child is not able to understand your words i forgive you, also is useless to him. You will even comfort the child because sometimes they are instinctively afraid that they have done something wrong because they see others are upset etc...We are those children of God. We must grow and evolve into the state that we are not even forced to forgive but to expand to the level to even UNDERSTAND others hurtful acts. That covers it all. Also many people say i forgive you, but they mention the hurt every now and then. When you mention it, it is probably not forigven, because it is not understood. God understands our every move and sin, and we are like little elephants in the glassstore doing dammage not knowing it sometimes until someone tells us, sometimes until God speaks to us or until circumstances push us to see. So we should also look at other people with that understanding and move from a lower level of forgiveness to a higher level of understanding and complete unconditional love. I call it also WISDOM. Love from the other side of this material world with complete spiritual wisdom and understanding. Oh, Lord, help us all!!
Matthew 22:37-40 King James Version (KJV)
37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38 This is the first and great commandment.
39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
My observation:
You are either hurt or you love something else or someone else more then God when you do hurtful things to others.
1 Corinthians 13 King James Version (KJV)
13 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.
10 But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
King James Version (KJV)
It Is Finished
John 19:28-30
28 After this, Jesus, [a]knowing that all things were now accomplished, that the Scripture might be fulfilled, said, “I thirst!” 29 Now a vessel full of sour wine was sitting there; and they filled a sponge with sour wine, put it on hyssop, and put it to His mouth. 30 So when Jesus had received the sour wine, He said, “It is finished!” And bowing His head, He gave up His spirit.
(What is finished? Forgiveness, unconditonal love for us from God that we as sons and daughter of God should through the spirit of wisdom and understanding spread throughout the world. Understanding and revelation are the only way to forgive. So pray for the spirit of wisdom and understanding when someone hurts you. )
King James Bible Luke 23:34
Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots.
King James Bible Hebrews 8:12
For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more.
Last edited:
