We rejoice with you that you have been rebaptized and are walking as a new creature in Christ Jesus! Your commitment to prayer, even in the midst of pain, is a testament to your faith, and we stand with you in this spiritual battle. The attacks you are facing are not uncommon when we take bold steps in our faith—especially when we choose to live righteously and confront darkness. The enemy seeks to discourage and distract, but we must remember that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). You are not alone in this fight, and we will lift you up in prayer and intercession.
It is clear that you have endured deep wounds from this person, and the pain of her words and actions has lingered for years. The fact that she resurfaced to bring more harm is not a coincidence—it is a direct attack from the enemy to stir up old insecurities and bitterness. But we praise God that you have chosen to confront her in truth and love, rather than allowing her words to fester in silence. You did the right thing by speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and setting boundaries to protect your heart and marriage. Scripture tells us, *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership does righteousness have with lawlessness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). While we are called to love and pray for our enemies, we are not called to remain in close fellowship with those who bring destruction and division, especially when they show no repentance.
You asked whether God punishes us for letting go of those who cause us pain. The answer is no—God does not punish us for setting healthy boundaries. In fact, Scripture encourages us to *"cast out the scoffer, and contention will leave; yes, strife and shame will stop"* (Proverbs 22:10). Jesus Himself set an example of withdrawing from those who sought to harm Him (Luke 4:28-30), and He taught His disciples to *"shake off the dust from your feet"* when their message of peace was rejected (Matthew 10:14). What God desires is for us to forgive (Colossians 3:13) and release bitterness, but that does not mean we must subject ourselves to ongoing harm. You have done well to pray for this woman and love her from a distance, entrusting her to the Lord’s justice and mercy.
Your pain is valid, and we grieve with you over the wounds inflicted by her words—especially those that attacked your worth and beauty. But we must remind you of what Scripture says: *"You are fearfully and wonderfully made"* (Psalm 139:14). Your identity is not found in the cruel words of others but in Christ, who calls you *"chosen, royal, holy, a people for God’s own possession"* (1 Peter 2:9). The enemy wants you to believe the lies that you are "ugly" or unworthy, but God’s Word declares that you are *"more than a conqueror through Him who loved us"* (Romans 8:37). Cling to these truths, especially in moments of doubt.
We also commend you for your commitment to pray for others despite your own pain. This is the heart of Christ, who interceded for His persecutors even as He hung on the cross (Luke 23:34). Your question to God—*"How can He allow me to pray for others while enduring so much pain?"*—is one that many saints have asked. But consider this: it is often in our weakest moments that God’s strength is perfected (2 Corinthians 12:9). Your intercession for others, even in suffering, is a powerful testimony of faith. Do not let the enemy convince you that your pain disqualifies you from praying for others. Instead, let it deepen your dependence on God, who hears your cries and collects your tears (Psalm 56:8).
As for the spiritual warfare you are experiencing, we must put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) and stand firm. The fact that old friends and even this woman have come against you is a sign that the enemy is threatened by your renewed commitment to Christ. But *"greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4). We will pray that the Lord surrounds you with a hedge of protection, that He silences the voices of the accuser, and that He fills you with His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We also pray that God sends godly, like-minded believers into your life—those who will encourage you, pray with you, and stand with you in this season.
Lastly, we celebrate your marriage and the blessed years you and your husband have shared. It is clear that the enemy seeks to attack what God has joined together, but we declare that *"no weapon formed against you will prosper"* (Isaiah 54:17). We pray that the Lord strengthens your union, that He guards your hearts against division, and that He fills your home with His love and unity. May your marriage be a reflection of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33), and may God grant you both wisdom to recognize and rebuke any schemes of the enemy.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is under attack. Lord, You see the battles she faces—both the spiritual warfare and the pain inflicted by those who seek to harm her. We ask that You surround her with Your angels, encamping around her to protect her from every scheme of the enemy (Psalm 34:7). Father, we rebuke the spirits of bitterness, insecurity, division, and accusation that have sought to torment her. We declare that she is *more than a conqueror* in Christ Jesus, and that no weapon formed against her will prosper.
Lord, we thank You that she has chosen to forgive and release this woman into Your hands. We ask that You deal with her heart, Lord—either by bringing her to repentance or by removing her influence entirely. Protect our sister from further harm, and replace every lie she has believed with Your truth. Remind her daily that she is fearfully and wonderfully made, that she is Your beloved daughter, and that her worth is found in You alone.
We pray for her marriage, Father. Strengthen the bond between her and her husband. Guard their hearts against the enemy’s attacks, and let their home be a place of refuge, love, and godly unity. May their marriage be a testimony of Your faithfulness and grace.
Lord, we ask that You fill the gaps in her life with godly friendships—women and men of faith who will encourage her, pray with her, and stand with her in this season. Remove every toxic influence, and bring her into a community that builds her up in Christ.
Finally, Father, we pray that You renew her strength. When she feels weak, let her find her strength in You (Isaiah 40:31). When she is weary, let her cast her burdens upon You (Matthew 11:28). Fill her with Your peace, Your joy, and Your unshakable confidence in who You say she is.
We declare victory over her life in Jesus’ name. Let every attack of the enemy backfire, and let this season of warfare become a season of greater faith, deeper trust, and mighty testimonies of Your power. We ask all this in the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
