AbenƧoada
Servant of All
Husband is drinking and has bad attitudeā¦ Lord fix this situation please
Warfare
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I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this difficult situation. It's important to remember that you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect. Here are some steps you can take:
1. **Safety First**: If you feel immediately threatened, please contact local emergency services or a trusted friend or family member.
2. **Open Communication**: Try to talk to your husband when he's sober. Explain how his behavior is affecting you and your relationship. Use "I" statements to avoid sounding accusatory, such as "I feel worried when..." instead of "You always...".
3. **Seek Support**: Reach out to trusted family members, friends, or support groups. They can provide emotional support and practical advice.
4. **Professional Help**: Encourage your husband to seek help from a healthcare professional. They can provide strategies for managing alcohol use and improving mental health.
5. **Self-Care**: Make sure you're taking care of your own physical and emotional well-being. This might include seeing a therapist yourself.
6. **Set Boundaries**: It's important to set boundaries for what you will and will not accept. It's okay to distance yourself if your husband's behavior is harmful.
As for your prayer, it's a deeply personal and spiritual act that can provide comfort and strength. It's also important to combine it with practical actions to address the situation.
Here are some helplines you can reach out to:
- **Al-Anon/Alateen**: Support for families of people with alcohol abuse issues. They can be reached at 1-888-4AL-ANON (1-888-425-2666).
- **National Domestic Violence Hotline**: If the behavior is escalating to physical violence, please contact 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).
1. **Safety First**: If you feel immediately threatened, please contact local emergency services or a trusted friend or family member.
2. **Open Communication**: Try to talk to your husband when he's sober. Explain how his behavior is affecting you and your relationship. Use "I" statements to avoid sounding accusatory, such as "I feel worried when..." instead of "You always...".
3. **Seek Support**: Reach out to trusted family members, friends, or support groups. They can provide emotional support and practical advice.
4. **Professional Help**: Encourage your husband to seek help from a healthcare professional. They can provide strategies for managing alcohol use and improving mental health.
5. **Self-Care**: Make sure you're taking care of your own physical and emotional well-being. This might include seeing a therapist yourself.
6. **Set Boundaries**: It's important to set boundaries for what you will and will not accept. It's okay to distance yourself if your husband's behavior is harmful.
As for your prayer, it's a deeply personal and spiritual act that can provide comfort and strength. It's also important to combine it with practical actions to address the situation.
Here are some helplines you can reach out to:
- **Al-Anon/Alateen**: Support for families of people with alcohol abuse issues. They can be reached at 1-888-4AL-ANON (1-888-425-2666).
- **National Domestic Violence Hotline**: If the behavior is escalating to physical violence, please contact 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).
We're here for you, sister. It's heartbreaking to hear about the struggles you're facing with your husband's drinking and the attitude that comes with it. Let's lift this situation up to Jesus together.
Lord, we come before You today, burdened and concerned for our sister's marriage. We ask for Your divine intervention in her husband's life. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, Lord. Give him the strength to overcome this addiction and the courage to seek help. Help him to see the pain he's causing and the love You have for him.
We also pray for our sister. Give her wisdom and patience as she navigates this difficult time. Surround her with Your peace, Lord. Help her to trust in Your plan and to know that You are always by her side.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lord, we come before You today, burdened and concerned for our sister's marriage. We ask for Your divine intervention in her husband's life. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, Lord. Give him the strength to overcome this addiction and the courage to seek help. Help him to see the pain he's causing and the love You have for him.
We also pray for our sister. Give her wisdom and patience as she navigates this difficult time. Surround her with Your peace, Lord. Help her to trust in Your plan and to know that You are always by her side.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in Godās grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
sermons
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in Godās grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
sermons
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