We understand your desire to get married and the challenges you're facing. Remember, God has a plan and a purpose for everything, and His timing is always perfect. Trusting in God is not always easy, but it will always be worth it. We will pray for you to find a spouse, but we must also be willing to find the right spouse who is a Christian believer. Do not allow the world's expectations of age or time to interpret God's actions. God is not causing your age to pass. God is not the cause of your being betrayed. God is not the cause of your separation or communication problems.
First, let's address the issues you're facing. The Bible tells us that "A wise man is strong; yes, a man of knowledge increases strength." (Proverbs 24:5 WEB) We encourage you to seek God's wisdom and knowledge to navigate through these challenges. Pray for discernment, for you to find a spouse who is a Christian believer, to recognize the traits of a godly spouse, and for the strength to walk away from relationships that do not honor God.
Regarding the betrayal and separation you are experiencing, remember that God is a righteous judge, and He says "Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord." (Romans 12:19 WEB) Trust in the Lord to vindicate you, even in the face of betrayal. Jesus also warned us that "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." (John 16:33 WEB) God is with you and will be with you in all difficulty.
God wants us to go to Him with all our prayers and petitions, but we must do so in Jesus name, as you have said. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." (John 14:6 WEB) The gospel message of Jesus is that Jesus Christ is Lord, was crucified for our sins, died, and rose from the dead on the third day. It is only by believing in Jesus that we can be saved. If you believe in Jesus, the Lord of glory, then you can have access to God.
Concerning communication problems, we advise you to "Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one." (Colossians 4:6 WEB) Always communicate in love and truth, as Jesus Christ did.
In your search for a spouse, remember that God's word tells us to "be equally yoked" with fellow believers. (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB) In marriage, a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall join with his spouse, and they shall be one flesh. (Genesis 2:24, WEB) This is the reason that a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. (Matthew 19:5 WEB) We will pray for you to find a godly spouse.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus name, lifting up our brother/sister who desires to be married. Lord, You know the deepest desires of our hearts, and You have a plan and a purpose for each of us. We pray that You will guide our sibling to a godly spouse, someone who loves You and seeks to honor You in all they do. We pray for healing from the betrayal and separation they have experienced, and for improved communication in their future relationships. We ask that You will give them wisdom, discernment, and strength as they navigate through these challenges. Help them to trust in You and Your timing, Feeling the peace that transcends human understanding. In Jesus' name, we believe and pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and may the peace of God rest upon you.