Violence And Marriage Healing

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My name is Sherry and I'm coming to you in need of prayer for my family and my husband Tom. We have been married 23 years, have 4 beautiful kids together. We married young, both from troubled homes. We fell in love and I thought we would always be there for each other. Problem is Satan has tried to destroy us from the beginning. He has used the hurts,abuse and pain we grew up with and turned it on us in our marriage. Over the years my husband has gone thru periods of physical and verbal abuse that I don't understand. It seems as if everytime things start going well for us, we are enjoying each others company and happy something takes it away.

In October my husband snapped again, beat me worse than I ever thought he would. He was arrested and convicted of a class 4 felong battery today. I had been praying hard for him, especially last night and we had been making progress, he was starting to reach out to me, try to talk about things inside of him and be kind until today and he is back to being angry and not wanting to talk again. Its like the harder I pray the more satan tries to take him away.

Throughout all of this I have prayed, some days not knowing what I should be praying for. His heart is hardened and angry, he blames me for what he did to me because he cant accept what hes become(satan fills his head with lies) and our family being torn apart is hurting all of us. My husband was brought up in an unbelieving home and has never had a relationship with God so I know he is alone in his messed up thoughts and heart with all he has done.

Please pray for us, all of us including Tom. Pray for Gods will in all of this, for healing of our hearts, for Tom to hear Gods voice and finally turn to Him and accept Him. Please pray that we are all forgiven and show mercy and forgiveness towards one another as Christ has done for us, that God may show Tom that his family is most important after God and that we are able to put this all behind us. I do not believe God wants me to stay in an abusive marriage but I also don't believe God wants me to divorce him either. Pray that God surround Tom with good people who encourage him to heal his family and get help, protect him from satans lies so he may see and hear clearly the voice of God.

I feel as if I am being called to pray for Tom, that he would become a new man in Christ and be able to one day be a gentle kind man who loves his wife and family and sees that we have been here praying all along. I pray for comfort and peace for my children, for God to meet their needs in everyway. In the end, if that is not Gods will then I pray He gives me strength and reassurance thats its ok if I no longer remain married and move forward in my life. PLease pray for us....

Father, I lift up myself, my family and my marriage to You for healing and restoration. You know the sorrow and pain that weighs heavy on our hearts before I ever say it. Heal us God, surround us with your love and protection, open Toms eyes to your mercy and love and call Him unto you so that he may be the husband and father he was called to be. Forgive me Father for the mistakes I have made and give me strength and hope for each new day, may Your desire and will for my marriage and family be made known to our hearts and that we will be able to show love,friendship and compassion to each other once again no matter what your plan is for our future. In Jesus precious name, Amen.
 
God Almighty please help Sherry and Tom. I pray in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen!
 
Heavenly Father, Please help Sherry to protect herself and her kids from Tom. Guide her and show her what to do. Give her Your wisdom and peace. Provide for the needs of this family. Lord, draw Sherry closer to You, seeking You daily, to live according to Your Word, to teach her kids to love You and know their Heavenly Father who is faithful and trustworthy and would never harm them. Help Tom to find You. Open his eyes. Remove the blinders and distractions and lies of Satan from influencing him. Help him to stop blaming others for his behavior and the destructive choices he is making. Father intervene in this situation and save this family for Your kingdom. Protect this Mom and her kids, heal them from the physical harm and mental and emotional damage that has been done by living with their troubled earthly father. In Jesus' name, Amen.

I don't know where you are located, but if you need to find a safe place at some point, here is a national number you can call. The rest of the numbers only apply if you are in Southern California

NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

Domestic violence programs can assist you in finding out about laws, shelters, counseling and financial assistance.

In Southern California:



The Sheepfold Women’s Shelter

Phone: Orange (714) 237-1444 or Riverside (951) 779-1433



Or Call toll free @ 1-877-743-3736



Fax: (714) 237-1440


Dial 211 for a list of shelters and resources in the following counties: Orange County, Los Angeles, San Diego and Riverside counties
 
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My Lord God I pray that you bind satan from afflicting this family and bring them together in happiness and walk the true path of peace...
 
Lord, I pray for Sherry and Tom and their children at this difficult time in their lives.Lord, bring Tom to you, heal his heart, make him see that he needs you.Lord, I pray for Sherry to have strength, courage,peace and to feel your arms around her. Lord, I lift up Sherry and Tom for you to take care of and for your will to be done. Heal this family, Lord, in Jesus' name. Amen
 
Sherry,you are so loved by God. And I can tell you that God DOES NOT want you to be beaten. This also harms your four beautiful children. Yes, it is right for you to pray for Tom, but also pray for yourself. You have needs that must be met. You need firm boundaries in place. Please go to a safe place where you can rest in the peace of God.

Father, thank you for the love you have for this couple. I pray for your will to be done. Father please protect and deliver this couple from all violence and evil. I pray, Lord, that you reveal and draw Sherry and Tom to You. May they discover your great love and dedicate their lives to You. I pray that you will bring Godly councel to Sherry, so that she and her children will be safe. Give her wisdom to do what is right for Tom and her children. Guide her Lord, unto the path that you have chosen for her. For it is not your will, nor will you tolerate her being beaten, nor should Sherry tolerate it. Help Tom and Sherry, Father. Strengthen them with your love. In Jesus name, I pray
 
Thank you and God bless everyone of you for your prayers. Just so no one is worried, Tom is NOT here and hasn't been since he was arrested. I filed a restraining order against him and when he was released on bond he was made to wear a GPS tracking bracelet so they knew if he was close to me. Yesterday he was convicted, only probation and they took off the bracelet and now he is just as hateful and angry all over again. He refused to go to our sons big wrestling meet today if I was going to be there (order says he can attend school functions with me present) and I knew it would crush our son if his dad couldn't go so I missed out on one of his biggest best meets because he is still munipulating and controlling me with guilt and the kids
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It seems as if the more I pray the worse it gets and I just want it to stop. I can't live like this anymore, it hurts too much... I need God to take over and make this better, living like this is too painful, it's not living at all...
 
Sherry, I feel we need to continue to pray for you, Tom, and your children. This is the best option.
 
dear lord, i pray that you restore their relationship ten fold, i pray that you stop the attcks by satan and guide tom back to salvation, i pray that you help tom relize the mistake he made in abuseing his wife, in jesus name amen
 
I won't give up praying, ever. I don't believe God wants us to be this way but I don't believe he wants me to be hurt anymore either and I can't do it anymore. I just spoke with him on the phone and he was kinder to me again, it's like I can hear the battle against satan raging in his mind and he doesn't even realize it's happening. I want us to be friends again,kind and loving towards each other, not like it is now even if it is not Gods will for us to be together I believe he can restore us to a place where we can still love each other and no more hurting.

Dear God, my heart is in a million pieces today,I'm grieving and I can't do this alone. Lord, love and protect us,may the lve and forgiveness you have given me show in my interactions with Tom that he too may come to you and commit his life and become the man we need him to be. Father I am torn, I do not know the path you want me to take and I feel lost. Forgive me and thank you Lord for all the blessings in my life. In Jesus name, amen
 
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