Video Time w/###, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents, 2 Pet 3:9 🙏 Godly Sorrow—> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10

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Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 2 months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel and purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and longing in your heart as you seek time with your son and plead for your marriage to be restored according to God’s design. The grief over lost moments and the ongoing separation is heavy, and we stand with you in bringing this burden before the Lord. Your prayer reflects a heart that desires God’s will above all else, even as you ache for reconciliation and godly change.

First, we must address the foundation of salvation, for it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If your wife has not surrendered her life to Christ, her actions, no matter how well-intentioned, will remain rooted in the flesh rather than the Spirit. We pray fervently that the Holy Spirit would convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), leading her to repentance and faith in Christ. Without this transformation, true change cannot take root.

The patterns you describe, passive-aggressiveness, silence, suggestive behavior, and rejection of godly counsel, are not merely marital struggles but symptoms of a deeper spiritual rebellion. Scripture warns that those who reject God’s counsel harden their hearts (Luke 7:30), and we must rebuke these works of the enemy in Jesus’ name. The marriage covenant is a reflection of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:32-33), and when one spouse undermines that covenant through disobedience, it grieves the Holy Spirit. We declare that the spirit of deception and rebellion operating in this situation must be broken now, in the mighty name of Jesus.

We also address the issue of biblical order in marriage. God’s design is for the husband to lovingly lead and the wife to respectfully submit (Ephesians 5:22-33, 1 Peter 3:1-7, 1 Corinthians 11:3). When this order is disrupted, it creates chaos, not only in the home but in the spiritual realm. We pray that your wife would humble herself before God and recognize His authority structure, not as oppression, but as the path to blessing. If she continues to resist, we trust God to intervene, even if it requires discipline (Hebrews 12:6) to bring her to repentance.

The lack of time with your son is heartbreaking, and we pray that God would open doors for you to be present in his life, even if the circumstances are not ideal. We declare that no weapon formed against your relationship with your child shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we bind every spirit of alienation and manipulation that seeks to keep you apart. We also pray for wisdom for you as you navigate this season, may you model Christlike love and patience, even as you stand firm on God’s truth.

We agree with you that godly sorrow leads to repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10), and we pray that your wife would experience this deep conviction. The Lord is patient, not wanting anyone to perish but everyone to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). Yet His patience is not an excuse for continued sin. We pray that He would shake every false security in her life, allowing her to see the emptiness of her ways and turn fully to Him. If it requires trials or hardship to bring her to her knees, we trust God’s sovereignty in that process.

For your son, we pray that he would be raised in the training and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). May the Scriptures be planted deep in his heart from infancy (2 Timothy 3:15-16), and may he grow to know and love Jesus. We declare that he will not be a statistic of broken homes but a testimony of God’s redemption.

We also lift you up, dear brother. This is a heavy cross to bear, and we pray that you would find strength in the Lord (Ephesians 6:10). Continue to fast, pray, and love her as Christ loves the Church, even when it is difficult. Speak to her heart with tenderness (Hosea 2:14), but do not compromise on truth. The enemy would love to see you grow weary, but we declare that you will not faint (Isaiah 40:31). Your prayers are powerful and effective (James 5:16), and we believe God is working even when you cannot see it.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this marriage and family before Your throne. Lord, we thank You that You hear the cries of Your children, and we know that You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We ask that You would move mightily in this situation, breaking every chain of rebellion, deception, and disobedience. Holy Spirit, we invite You to convict deeply, not with condemnation, but with godly sorrow that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10).

Father, we pray for this wife, that she would come to know You as her Savior and Lord. Soften her heart, Lord, and remove every veil of pride and self-sufficiency. Let her see the emptiness of her ways and turn to You with all her heart. We declare that she will not perish but will come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). Restore her to a right relationship with You and with her husband, that their marriage may reflect Christ and the Church.

For this husband, we pray for strength, wisdom, and perseverance. Give him the grace to love his wife as Christ loves the Church, even when it is difficult. Help him to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and to stand firm on Your Word. Protect his heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

For their son, we pray that You would draw him close to You. May he grow up knowing the Scriptures and the love of his heavenly Father. We declare that he will be a man of God, raised in the fear and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). Break every generational curse and cycle of brokenness, and let this family be a testimony of Your redeeming power.

Lord, we resist the devil and his schemes in this situation. We declare that the gates of hell will not prevail against Your Church (Matthew 16:18), and we stand in agreement that this marriage will be restored according to Your will. We pray for a miracle, Lord, not for our glory, but for Yours. Let Your name be exalted in this family, and let Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

We thank You, Father, that You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28) and that Your plans for this family are plans for peace and not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11). We trust You, Lord, and we wait on You. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

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We ache with you over the stolen time with your son, you put your finger right on it: “I’ll never get that back.” That is a real grief, and we don’t rush past it. Eight minutes in two months is a wound that keeps being reopened, and the ongoing silence and passive hurt make it heavier still. We are asking God to hold you steady in that place.

One thing you named honestly is the forgiveness you have already begun extending for the months of lost video visits. That is no small thing. But we know forgiveness often comes in waves, especially when the same dismissive behavior continues. You might consider taking a concrete step toward what some call “decisional forgiveness”, not because the hurt has gone away, but as a deliberate release of the resentment that can harden your own heart and cloud your prayers. You can simply tell the Lord, “I choose again today to release her from the debt of those stolen moments. I will not use this wound as a weapon in my own heart or in our interactions.” That clears ground inside you without pretending the situation is fixed.

From that settled ground, your longing for her salvation and for your son to be raised in the training of the Lord carries even more weight. We join you in asking God to grant her that godly sorrow that leads to real change, not just a fleeting regret. And for you, we ask for the steady love that speaks tenderly, without demanding results.

Our prayer with you: Father, be near this father in his ache for time with his boy. Protect that child’s heart. Grant this mother true, saving repentance that reshapes her life and her parenting. And guard this father from bitterness, giving him a persevering love that does not quit. We trust You to make a way, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The sorrow you carry for those lost months, the ache of scarce minutes with your own child, is a wound that throbs deep. Yet remember that even this grief can be a tutor, driving you to the God who numbers the tears of His people. You do well to forgive her, for a heart that has tasted the forgiveness of Christ cannot hoard bitterness. But forgiveness and a longing for her salvation must be wedded to a clear-eyed understanding of what true repentance is. The mere shaking of an earthquake, the fright of a moment, can produce a terror that soon evaporates, like the men in the Revelation who repented not when judgments fell. That is the sorrow of the world which works death. There is a repentance which springs from man’s own flesh, a transient vomit, and it must be repented of. But the repentance you must beg God to bestow upon her is a godly sorrow that works a repentance unto salvation, never to be regretted. It is a sorrow that does not merely dread hell but loathes sin, that does not only tremble at consequences but kisses the pierced feet of the Redeemer with tears of humility and faith. It is inseparable from believing the gospel.

True repentance ejects sin as a vile tenant; faith admits Christ as the sole Master. The repentance you crave for her is not a bare change of mind about a few habits, but a thorough turning from independence, lying, and every false way, crowned with a childlike submission to God and a clinging confidence in Jesus Christ. Pray that the Holy Spirit would convict her not with a transient earthquake but with the still small voice that drew Elijah from his cave, a gentle, holy pressure that makes the soul obey. Reject not the counsel of God, as the Pharisees did; let her not spurn the gracious guidance that would lead her to the cross. God is not slow, but patient, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to that intense change of mind about sin. Therefore, continue to love her, speak tenderly to her heart, and above all, plead the blood of the Covenant.

And for yourself, let your own sorrow be sanctified. Do not sin against the child by letting disappointment sour into wrath, for “if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door.” A godly father must walk so that his child sees the beauty of holiness even amidst tears. Though you may be separated for a season, like Jacob mourning Joseph, yet faith can say, “It is the Lord: let him do what seemeth him good.” If you be a praying father, a holy example, you are a pillar of the house; who can tell what blessings may yet come to that young soul through your steadfastness? The promise is sure: “I will lay thy stones with fair colours,” and in the bitterness of repentance there shall yet be the brightness of remission. Look to Christ, who loved His Church and gave Himself for her. He is able to reconcile, restore, and build up that which is broken. Let your prayers rise as incense, your tears be precious in His sight, and your faith rest firm, for He who has begun a good work will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ. And may the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, keep your heart and mind through Christ Jesus.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you for this in Jesus' name, Amen

 

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I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

When you cry out for the lost time with your son, that sorrow is natural, but take care lest it become the sorrow of the world that works death. I hear the pain of those months stolen from you, yet I would say, do not let the bitterness of that loss consume you, but turn it into godly sorrow for her soul. For what gain is it to have video time if the boy's mother perishes? The true battle is not over minutes and pictures, but over her eternal destiny and the spiritual formation of your child. You have already forgiven her, you say, and that is well, but forgiveness must be complete and without secret resentment. Love her with a love that seeks her repentance, not merely your own consolation.

Consider what godly sorrow means. It is not the tears of Esau, who sought repentance with weeping but found none, for his heart still held murder. The afflictions that shake her, the earthquakes and typhoons you mention, these are not punishments without purpose. God allows such shakings because they often break the hard ground of the soul and make it ready for the still, small voice of the Spirit. Do not despise these winds and quakes; they may be the very means by which the Lord calls her out of the cave of her sin, as He did with Elijah. Yet remember that the power encounter is fleeting; it is the gentle, persistent whisper of God that brings true obedience. So pray not merely for dramatic signs, but for that deep, enduring conviction of the Holy Spirit which brings a change of mind about sin itself, the kind that turns from independence and lying as from fire.

You have set before the Lord the verses about His patience and His will that none perish. Hold fast to that hope. There is indeed repentance, and it has great force to set free even those who have come to the very depth of wickedness. I have said before that Christ can be formed again in a soul that turns; for Paul travailed in birth again until Christ was formed in the Galatians. That is your calling now, to travail in prayer as a father, not only for time with your son but for her new birth. But you must know that true repentance, a salvation that brings no regret, is not a matter of a few tears or a temporary fright. It is a thorough turning, a daily dying. Pray that she may be pricked at heart not for the consequences, but for the offense against God.

Do not be discouraged if you see only silence or passive aggressiveness. The proud heart resists, but prayer and fasting and love spoken tenderly, as the Lord spoke to Israel in the wilderness, will not return void. You must be blameless, acting with wisdom, not provoking your children to wrath, that the Word of God may not be blasphemed. And if, in His mercy, God grants her repentance, you will see that the time lost is nothing compared to the eternity gained. Therefore, let your mourning be for sin, and let that mourning drive you to your knees, not away from love. For godly sorrow works repentance unto salvation, a repentance that leaves no regret behind.