Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:1

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🕊️Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 2 months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel and purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…
 
We hear your heartbreaking cry for restoration, both in your marriage and in the precious time you long to share with your son. The pain of separation, the sting of passive aggression, and the fear for your wife’s soul weigh heavily upon you, and we stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of grace.

First, we must address the foundation of all true reconciliation: the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6), and it is only by His blood that sins are washed away (1 John 1:7). If your wife does not yet know Him as Lord and Savior, her first need is not behavioral change but a transformed heart. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict her deeply of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), leading her to repentance, a godly sorrow that produces life without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10). Lord, shatter any false security she may cling to and replace it with the unshakable truth of Your Word.

The marriage covenant you referenced (Ephesians 5:32-33) is sacred, designed to reflect Christ’s love for the Church. Yet we see rebellion against biblical order (1 Corinthians 11:3, 1 Peter 3:1-7) and a refusal of godly counsel (Luke 7:30). This grieves the Holy Spirit. We rebuke the spirit of deception that blinds her to the consequences of her actions, not just for your family, but for her own soul. The suggestive profiles, the withholding of access to your son, and the silence are not merely personal slights; they are symptoms of a heart in need of repentance. Father, let her see the weight of her choices. If it takes the crashing down of her worldly securities, like the earthquakes and storms she’s already endured, then let it be. But do not leave her in the rubble; draw her to Yourself with cords of kindness (Hosea 2:14).

For your son’s sake, we plead for his protection and godly upbringing. The statistics you mentioned are sobering: children raised in a home where the father follows Christ have a far greater likelihood of knowing Him themselves (Ephesians 6:4). We pray that the courts and all authorities involved would recognize the urgency of this spiritual battle. May your son be steeped in Scripture from infancy (2 Timothy 3:15), and may he grow to honor both parents as the Lord commands (Exodus 20:12), even when one is in rebellion.

To you, dear brother, we say: your love for her, expressed in fasting, prayer, and tender words, is a reflection of Christ’s love for His Bride. Do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). The Lord sees your tears and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). But we must also warn you: bitterness is a snare (Hebrews 12:15). Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin; it means releasing the debt to God, who judges justly (1 Peter 2:23). Keep your heart soft toward Him, and He will direct your steps.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You as the Church You are building, against which the gates of hell cannot prevail (Matthew 16:18). We resist the devil and his schemes to destroy this family, and we command every lying spirit to flee in Jesus’ name (James 4:7). Lord, we ask for a supernatural intervention: let Your Holy Spirit convict Your daughter of her sin and lead her to repentance (John 16:8). Break the hardness of her heart, and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. If it takes the removal of her false securities, financial, emotional, or relational, then do it, but save her soul.

For this marriage, we pray for restoration according to Your will. Where there has been rebellion, bring humility. Where there has been silence, bring confession. Where there has been division, bring unity under Christ. May Your Word be the final authority in this home (2 Timothy 3:16-17), and may Your love be the foundation.

For this precious son, we ask for Your protection. Guard his heart from bitterness and his mind from deception. Let him know You as his Heavenly Father and his earthly father as a man after Your own heart. May he be raised in the training and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4), and may he one day rise up and call his parents blessed (Proverbs 31:28).

And for our brother, we pray for endurance. Strengthen him to love as You love, to forgive as You forgive, and to trust You even when the path is dark. Let his prayers and fasting be a fragrance before Your throne (Revelation 5:8), and may he see the fruit of his labor in due season.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). May Your will be done, and may Your glory be revealed in this family. Amen.
 
We feel your pain deeply. It's heartbreaking to see the distance that's grown between you and your son, and the ongoing struggle with passive aggression and lack of repentance. We pray that God would soften her heart and bring about true conviction and change. It's not about getting back what's been lost in those missed moments, but about praying for a future where those bonds can be rebuilt in a godly way.

We also lift up your son to the Lord, asking for His protection over him and for godly influences to surround him. The enemy wants to steal, kill, and destroy, but we know God has a plan for his life, a hope and a future.

Lord, we come before You on behalf of this family. Soften hearts, bring repentance, and restore what has been broken. Let Your love and truth prevail in this situation. We ask all these things in Jesus' name.
 

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