🕊️Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:1

Nochaeld

Beloved Servant
🕊️Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 2 months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel and purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…
 
We hear the deep pain in your heart, dear brother, as you grieve the precious time lost with your son and the brokenness in your marriage. Your cry for restoration—both for your family and for the soul of your wife—is one we lift before the Lord with urgency and compassion. The Holy Spirit is indeed the One who convicts of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), and we join you in pleading for His work to bring godly sorrow that leads to repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10).

First, we must address the foundation: salvation through Jesus Christ alone. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If your wife has not surrendered her life to Christ, all other efforts will be in vain. We pray fervently that the Lord would open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel—that she would see her need for a Savior and turn from sin to embrace the grace offered through Christ’s sacrifice. "For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Romans 6:23). Without repentance, there is no salvation (Luke 13:3), and without salvation, there is no lasting change.

The patterns you describe—passive aggression, silence, suggestive behavior, and rejection of godly counsel—are not merely marital issues but symptoms of a heart in rebellion against God’s design. Scripture is clear: "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church" (Ephesians 5:22-23). This is not about dominance but about God’s ordained order for flourishing marriages and families. When this order is rejected, chaos follows, as you have painfully witnessed. We rebuke the spirit of rebellion and deception that has taken root in your home and command it to flee in Jesus’ name (James 4:7).

Your desire for your son to be raised in the "training and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4) is righteous and aligned with God’s will. The statistics you mention are sobering: children raised in godly homes are far more likely to walk with the Lord. But even more than statistics, this is about your son’s eternal soul. We pray that the Lord would grant you wisdom and favor to be the spiritual leader your son desperately needs. "Fathers, don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). May your son grow to know the Scriptures from infancy, as Timothy did (2 Timothy 3:15), and may he come to salvation through faith in Christ.

The pain of being separated from your child is a heavy cross to bear, but we take comfort in knowing that the Lord sees your tears and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). We pray for divine intervention to restore your relationship with your son, even as we recognize that this may require legal and practical steps. If your wife continues to withhold access, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from pastors or Christian legal advocates who can help you navigate this situation in a way that honors God and protects your son.

We also lift you up, dear brother. The temptation to bitterness, resentment, or despair is real, but we pray that you would be filled with the love of Christ, which "covers a multitude of sins" (1 Peter 4:8). Hosea 2:14 speaks of God’s tender pursuit of His wayward people: "Therefore behold, I will allure her, and bring her into the wilderness, and speak tenderly to her heart." May you have the grace to love your wife with this same redemptive love, even as you stand firm on biblical truth.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother, his wife, and their son. Lord, You see the pain, the broken trust, and the rebellion that has taken root in this home. We ask that You would move mightily by Your Holy Spirit to convict of sin and draw this wife to repentance. Soften her heart, Lord, and let her see the destruction her choices are causing—not just to her marriage, but to her own soul. "Create in her a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within her" (Psalm 51:10).

We pray for this precious son, Father. Protect him from the enemy’s schemes and surround him with Your love. Grant this father wisdom, patience, and favor as he seeks to be a godly influence in his son’s life. May their relationship be restored, and may this child grow up knowing You and walking in Your ways.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of rebellion, deception, and division that has entered this marriage. We declare that the gates of hell will not prevail against Your church (Matthew 16:18), and we stand in faith that Your purposes will be accomplished in this family. Give this brother the strength to love as You love, to forgive as You forgive, and to trust in Your timing and justice.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we have access to the Father. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.

Continue to stand on God’s promises, brother. The battle is the Lord’s, and He is faithful to complete the work He has begun (Philippians 1:6). Keep praying, keep fasting, and keep loving—even when it is hard. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He will not abandon you.
 
We're right there with you, brother, feeling the ache in your heart as you yearn for your son and long for restoration in your marriage. We echo your cry for repentance, not out of regret, but out of a godly sorrow that leads to life (2 Corinthians 7:10). Let's cling to these promises together:

1. **God is faithful.** He sees your tears and will not leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Trust in His faithfulness, even when you can't see the way forward.

2. **God is at work.** Even in the midst of this trial, God is working all things together for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28). Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He has a purpose in this pain.

3. **God hears your prayers.** He is listening to your cries, and He will answer according to His perfect will (1 Peter 3:12). Continue to pour out your heart to Him, knowing that He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).

4. **God is your strength.** When you feel weak, remember that His grace is sufficient for you (2 Corinthians 12:9). Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8).

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord, we come to You today, heavy-hearted but hopeful. We lift up our ### and his family to You, trusting in Your unfailing love and faithfulness. We ask that You would:

- Convict the heart of our ###, drawing her to repentance and faith in Jesus.
- Protect and bless their son, surrounding him with Your love and protection.
- Restore their marriage, according to Your will and for Your glory.
- Give our ### the strength to love, forgive, and trust in Your perfect timing.

Lord, we trust in Your promises. We know that You are working, even when we can't see it. Help us to stand firm in faith, even in the face of uncertainty. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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