🕊️Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:1

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Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 2X in 3 weeks then only one time at church on EASTER SUNDAY for 1 minute where he was happy to see me — showing me drums, instruments… Then only 7 minutes for an obligatory video with him while at my elderly parents -- so 8 minutes in 2 months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profile"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… I really loved her and really love my son, and this was CLEARLY God's will... In the presence of two or three witnesses let every fact be confirmed, 2 Cor 13:1, we were married in front of many... "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so we can be EQUALLY YOKED for Your Kingdom, Matt 6:33, RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18…

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

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We hear the deep pain in your heart, Father, as you plead for time with your ### and for the salvation and transformation of your marriage. The longing to be present in your child’s life and the ache of separation are heavy burdens, and we stand with you in this struggle, lifting it all to the throne of grace. The Scriptures remind us, *"A father of the fatherless, and a defender of the widows, is God in his holy habitation"* (Psalm 68:5). You are not alone in this, for the Lord sees your tears and hears your cries.

The situation you describe reveals a marriage in distress, where biblical principles of love, respect, and unity have been fractured. The withholding of time with your ###, the passive-aggressive behaviors, and the disregard for godly counsel are not aligned with God’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear: *"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church"* (Ephesians 5:22-23). Yet this is not a call for domination but for sacrificial love, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. The lack of mutual submission and the rejection of accountability before God and man are grievous wounds in this covenant.

We must also address the urgency of salvation. You rightly pray for your ### to be saved, for only then can you be equally yoked, as the Lord commands: *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). Without repentance and faith in Jesus Christ, there is no true unity in marriage, for the foundation is not Christ but self. The Holy Spirit must convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), leading her to godly sorrow that produces repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10). We join you in praying that her heart would be softened, that she would turn from rebellion and embrace the grace of God.

The absence of your ###’s presence in your life is a profound loss, and we grieve with you. Yet we also declare that God is able to restore what has been broken. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a contrite spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). We pray that the Lord would intervene, that He would open doors for you to be a father to your ###, teaching him the ways of the Lord as Scripture commands: *"You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise up"* (Deuteronomy 6:7). May your ### grow in the wisdom and knowledge of God, and may he come to know the love of Christ through you.

We must also rebuke the enemy’s schemes in this situation. The devil seeks to destroy marriages, divide families, and steal the inheritance of the Lord. But we stand firm, resisting him in the name of Jesus: *"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7). We declare that the gates of hell will not prevail against the church (Matthew 16:18), and we bind every spirit of division, deception, and rebellion that seeks to tear this family apart.

Father, we pray for your ###, that the Holy Spirit would convict her deeply of her need for Christ. May she experience the godly sorrow that leads to repentance, turning from sin and embracing the truth. We ask that You would humble her, even if it requires shaking the foundations around her, so that she would seek You with all her heart. *"The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance"* (2 Peter 3:9). Let her salvation be real, not a false security, but a transformation that bears fruit in keeping with repentance.

We also pray for you, that the Lord would strengthen you in this trial. May you continue to love her with the love of Christ, speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), even as you stand firm on biblical principles. May your prayers and fasting be a sweet aroma before the Lord, and may He grant you wisdom and grace to navigate this difficult season. *"Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand"* (Philippians 4:5).

Lord, we ask that You would restore this marriage, not for the sake of convenience or human desire, but for Your glory. Let it be a testimony of Your mercy, grace, and power to save. May your ### be raised in the fear and admonition of the Lord, and may he grow to know You intimately. We declare that what the enemy meant for evil, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20), and that this family will be a light in a dark world.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). For it is through Him that we have access to the Father, and it is by His blood that we are reconciled to God. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We understand your heartache, dear friend. The longing for quality time with your son and the strain in your marriage is deeply felt. We stand with you in prayer, lifting these burdens to the Lord.

We praise God for His faithfulness in your life, even in the midst of these trials. He sees your tears and hears your cries. We claim His promise in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God."

We pray for your wife, that the Holy Spirit would convict her heart of her need for repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. We ask that she would turn from her rebellious ways and embrace the grace of God. We also pray for your son, that he would grow in wisdom and knowledge of the Lord, and that you would be able to have a positive influence in his life.

We declare that your marriage can be restored according to God's design. We pray that you and your wife would be equally yoked in Christ, submitting to one another in love and respect, as commanded in Ephesians 5:21-33.

We also pray for protection against the enemy's schemes. We rebuke every spirit of division, deception, and rebellion that seeks to destroy your family. We declare that the gates of hell will not prevail against your marriage, as stated in Matthew 16:18.

We ask these things in Jesus' name, believing that He has the power to save and transform your family. We trust in His goodness and mercy, even in the midst of our trials. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you for this in Jesus' name, Amen