Video Time, Holy Spirit Convicts Jn 16:18, Wife Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏 Godly Sorrow—>Repentance to Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10, Does God's Will Mt 23:37

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🕊️Video Time w/###, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 3+ months -- Father I want time with my young ###...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel and purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30. "O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, who kills the prophets and stones those sent to her, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were unwilling!" Matt 23:37, Luke 13:34.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — BOTH show tough love and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…
 
We hear the deep anguish in your heart as you plead for your wife’s repentance and the restoration of your marriage and family. The pain of separation from your son, the betrayal of broken trust, and the weight of spiritual warfare are heavy burdens to bear. Yet we stand with you in agreement, lifting this before the throne of grace, for the Lord hears the cries of His children and is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).

First, we must address the foundation of this prayer, Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:6), and there is no salvation apart from Him (Acts 4:12). If your wife does not yet know Christ as her Lord and Savior, her repentance must begin with true conversion, turning from sin and self-rule to surrendering her life to Jesus. Without this, any change will be superficial. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), leading her to godly sorrow that produces repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10).

The patterns you describe, withholding access to your son, passive-aggressive behavior, suggestive online activity, and rejecting godly counsel, are not merely marital struggles but rebellion against God’s order. Scripture is clear: marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24), designed to reflect Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:32). When a spouse refuses submission to God’s design (Ephesians 5:22-24, 1 Peter 3:1-7) and rejects accountability, it is not just a personal offense but a spiritual attack on the family and the Gospel itself. We rebuke the spirit of deception and hardness of heart that blinds her to the truth, and we declare that the gates of hell will not prevail against God’s purposes for your family (Matthew 16:18).

Your prayer for tough love and tender mercy is wise. Hosea 2:14 speaks of the Lord alluring His wayward people back, not through force, but through the still, small voice of conviction and grace. Yet we must also warn: if she remains unrepentant, Scripture permits separation for the sake of peace and godliness (1 Corinthians 7:15). The safety and spiritual well-being of your son must be prioritized, for fathers are called to raise their children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). We pray that the Lord would either soften her heart or remove her from a position of influence if she continues to lead your son astray.

We also lift you up, brother. The grief of lost time with your child is real, and the temptation to bitterness is strong. But we are commanded to forgive as Christ forgave us (Colossians 3:13), even while standing firm on truth. Guard your heart against resentment, for it will only give the enemy a foothold (Ephesians 4:26-27). Instead, let your prayers and fasting be a fragrant offering to the Lord (Psalm 141:2), trusting that He works all things for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

Our prayer for you and your family:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, interceding for this marriage and this precious child. Lord, You see the brokenness, the sin, and the pain. We ask that You would shatter the hardness in this wife’s heart and bring her to a place of godly sorrow that leads to repentance. Convict her of her sin, not just against her husband, but against You, the God who designed marriage and family. Let her see the destruction of her ways and turn to Christ in humility and faith.

Father, if she will not repent, we ask that You remove her influence from this child’s life, for the sake of his soul. Raise him up in the fear and admonition of the Lord, that from infancy he would know Your Word and walk in Your ways (2 Timothy 3:15). Give this father wisdom, strength, and grace to lead his son with patience and love, even in the midst of this storm.

Lord, we rebuke every spirit of division, deception, and rebellion that seeks to destroy this family. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that the peace of Christ would rule in their hearts (Colossians 3:15). Where there has been sin, bring confession and restoration. Where there has been hardness, bring a broken and contrite spirit. And where there has been loss, bring redemption and healing.

We thank You that You are not slow concerning Your promises (2 Peter 3:9), and that You desire all to come to repentance. We trust in Your perfect will, whether that means restoration or a new path forward. Give this family endurance, hope, and unwavering faith in Your goodness.

In the mighty name of Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith, we pray. Amen.
 
We hear the ache in your words, a father who wants nothing more than to be present in his son’s life, yet watches precious days slip by. The ongoing distance, the silence, and the weight of seeing choices that harm your family cut deep. We don’t take that lightly, and we pray with you for real change.

What we see in your request is a heart that has already chosen forgiveness, even when the hurt keeps coming. That is no small thing. The pain you feel does not mean you haven’t forgiven, it means you love your son, and you long for your wife’s soul. That sort of love, that steady ache for her true repentance and for your child to know the Lord, reflects something of God’s own patient heart.

In the middle of this, we’d gently encourage you to consider reaching back to those trained counselors, even if your wife won’t join you yet. Having a wise, godly voice to walk alongside you, to help you process the grief, navigate the practical challenges of limited contact, and guard your own heart from bitterness, can be a lifeline. You don’t have to carry this alone.

And while you wait and pray and fast, don’t despise the small windows you do have. Eight minutes may feel like nothing, but a father’s steady love, spoken words of truth, and faithful prayers over your son are seeds that God can water in ways you cannot yet see.

Lord, in Jesus’ name we lift up this hurting father. Draw near and let him feel Your comfort. We ask You to break through to his wife with the kind of conviction that leads to genuine repentance and a changed life. Guard his young son’s heart and mind; in Your mercy, bring about circumstances that allow him to be raised in the training and instruction of the Lord. Give this dad wisdom, endurance, and fresh hope each day. For Your glory we pray. Amen.
 
The grief you carry over lost moments with ### is not unseen by the Father who gathers every tear. Yet I must press this upon your heart, there is a repentance that merely weeps under the rod and a repentance that turns the soul to give God glory. The judgments shaking that home, the earthquakes and storms of conscience, may produce a carnal sorrow, a regret that sin brings trouble, but not that sin offends a holy God. True repentance gives Him glory. It makes a rainbow with tears of grief for sin and glances of hope at the love of Christ and His great finished work. Pray that she would know this repentance that needs not to be repented of.

The father in our Lord's parable saw his prodigal long before the prodigal saw him. The eyes of mercy are quicker than the eyes of repentance. Even now, while she stiffens her neck and sends her silent, cutting messages, the Father watches for the first stirring of her heart toward home. That kiss of sonship stops every plea to be a hired servant, it speaks, "You are my child." All the promises in this Book belong to every repentant sinner who returns to God believing in Jesus Christ His Son. Keep pleading that she would arise and go to her Father, remembering the heritage of faith she has spurned.

You ask for her salvation, and that is a prayer according to God's will. Repentance and remission of sins are to be preached in Christ's name, not as bitter duties we muster, but as free gifts of His grace. Evangelical repentance does not cause a soul to run from God like a child fearing the lash, but to lay its head in the Father's bosom, sobbing out grief that it has offended such love. This is the change of mind, the metanoia, that is unto life. The least sincere repentance saves, for it looks wholly out of self to Christ and Christ only. There are no conditions of salvation but simple trusting in the Person who bled on Calvary.

Yet I charge you, as you pray and fast, remember Manasseh. He was the son of a godly father, Hezekiah, who worked what was good and right before the Lord. But when the good king was gone, Manasseh undid all his father had done, building altars to idols and shedding innocent blood. He seemed beyond hope. But in his affliction, he humbled himself greatly before the God of his fathers and prayed, and God was entreated. So take heart and pray on. ### sees your witness; he will remember the good. What an influential preacher is a father to his son! By the grace of those healing leaves from the Tree of Life, the least things about Christ can change the lifeblood of your household.

Commit her, and ###, and your aching heart to the God who is not willing that any should perish. The plain statement of the way of salvation is this: "Whoever believes on Him shall not be ashamed." Leave these tangled matters with Him in unquestioning confidence. Go to your own place and speak tenderly, as to her heart. The valley of trouble can become a door of hope.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 

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