Video Time, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10...

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Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 3+ months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel and purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation with deep concern for the marriage covenant, the spiritual well-being of all involved, and the precious life of your son. The pain of separation, the withholding of time, and the patterns of passive aggression and ungodly behavior are grievous wounds that only the healing hand of God can mend. We stand with you in agreement, believing that God’s Word is true and His promises are sure.

First, we must address the foundational issue of salvation. Your prayer rightly acknowledges that apart from repentance, there is no eternal life. Scripture is clear: "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16). Salvation is not a false security, it is a transformative work of the Holy Spirit, bringing godly sorrow that leads to repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10). We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict deeply, breaking through hardness of heart, and leading to true repentance. "The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9). This is not merely about behavior modification, it is about a heart turned fully to Christ.

The marriage covenant you referenced is sacred, established by God as a reflection of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:32-33). When one spouse resists biblical order, rejects godly counsel, and engages in deception or emotional manipulation, it grieves the Holy Spirit and fractures the union God designed. We rebuke in Jesus’ name every spirit of rebellion, dishonor, and division that has taken root. The Word commands, "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church" (Ephesians 5:22-23). This is not about domination but about sacrificial love and mutual submission to God’s design. We pray for a restoration of biblical order, where respect, love, and godly leadership prevail.

The withholding of time with your son is a grave injustice, not only to you but to the child who needs the love and instruction of his father. "Fathers, don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). We stand against every scheme of the enemy to sever this bond and declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We pray for the Holy Spirit to intervene, softening hearts and opening doors for reconciliation. If necessary, we ask God to allow circumstances to shake what must be shaken so that truth may prevail.

We also address the "passive aggressiveness," silence, and suggestive behavior mentioned. These are not merely personal flaws, they are sinful patterns that defile the marriage bed and grieve the Holy Spirit. "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4). We rebuke every spirit of lust, deception, and emotional unfaithfulness in Jesus’ name. If there has been physical or emotional infidelity, we call for full repentance, transparency, and restoration. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).

Your reference to trained counselors being rejected is a sobering reminder of the danger of resisting godly wisdom. "The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but he who listens to counsel is wise" (Proverbs 12:15). We pray that pride would be broken and that humility would lead to a willingness to seek help. The Church is called to restore gently (Galatians 6:1), but restoration cannot happen without repentance.

We agree with your prayer for the salvation of your wife and the raising of your son in the fear and admonition of the Lord. The statistics you mentioned are a stark reality, children raised in godly homes have a far greater likelihood of walking with Christ. "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6). We pray that your son would be a mighty man of God, grounded in Scripture from infancy (2 Timothy 3:15), and that he would see the love of Christ modeled in both his parents.

We also lift you up, dear brother. The weight of this burden is heavy, and the enemy would love to see you grow weary or bitter. But we declare that you will not faint. "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up" (Galatians 6:9). We pray for grace to love as Christ loves, to speak the truth in love, and to trust God’s timing. Your fasting and prayer are powerful weapons, do not underestimate their impact. "The effective, earnest prayer of a righteous man avails much" (James 5:16).

Finally, we stand on the promise that the gates of hell shall not prevail against the Church (Matthew 16:18). We resist the devil, and he must flee (James 4:7). We declare that this family is not abandoned, God is working, even in the silence. We pray for a mighty outpouring of the Holy Spirit, for dreams, visions, and divine encounters that would break every chain. May the "still, small voice" of God (1 Kings 19:12) speak so clearly that there is no room for doubt.

Lord, we come before You with boldness, knowing that You hear the cries of Your children. We ask for a miracle in this marriage, a supernatural restoration that can only be explained by Your power. Break every chain of sin, rebellion, and deception. Soften hearts, open eyes, and draw all involved into a deep, saving relationship with Jesus Christ. May this family be a testimony of Your mercy, grace, and transforming love. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how deeply you ache over the months of missed time with your son, hours and moments you can never get back, and the ongoing struggle just to be present in his life. That grief is real, and it’s not something you have to spiritualize away. We’re sorry you’re carrying this.

What stands out is that even in the middle of that pain, your heart keeps bending toward prayer for your son’s mother, that she would come to a real, saving knowledge of Christ, and that your child would be raised in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. That longing mirrors God’s own patience, and it’s no small thing. Yet we also want to gently remind you that you are not responsible for outcomes only the Holy Spirit can bring. While you pray and fast and speak tenderly, her response remains her own. You can decide, genuinely, before God, to forgive as an act of will, releasing the debt she owes you for the lost time. That decision won’t erase the sadness quickly, but it can guard your own heart from bitterness that would rob you further.

A practical step to consider: Seek out a Christian counselor or a support group for fathers in similar situations. Legal and custody complexities are heavy to navigate alone, and a wise, experienced voice can help you steward the avenues that are open to you while you keep trusting God with the closed doors. Also, make the most of every minute you do have with your son, short as they are, to simply love him and speak of Jesus in the everyday. Those seeds are not wasted.

Lord Jesus, we bring this father’s heartache to You. Comfort him in the empty spaces where he longs to be with his son. Soften the mother’s heart toward You first, that she would know real repentance and transformation. Give this dad wisdom, steady hope, and moments of genuine connection with his child. Protect the boy, and in Your time bring order and peace to this family for Your glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 

[Sparklee]

Continuing in prayer for your son, may the Lord grant time together, his heart, mind, physical being, be set apart, protected from being polluted by the worlds influence. May the Lord orchestrate in His time, according to His Will a permanent day of reunification with your son. Praying for your wifes salvation in Jesus Name Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The cry of your heart is heard, and the sorrow you bear, over lost days with your little one, over a soul walking in blindness, is not a small thing to the God who marks every tear. Yet we must be careful that our grief, though real, leads us to the only solid ground. There is a repentance that springs from judgments, from typhoons and shakings, which yet may be only of the flesh. Men may be sorry for the consequences of sin and never give God glory. True repentance, the repentance which is the work of the Spirit of God and which God accepts, gives God glory. That is the repentance unto life, and it is a free gift of His grace. We are to preach repentance in the name of Jesus Christ, telling sinners that God gives repentance, that it is one of the free gifts of His grace, and that whoever has it may rest assured that the hand of the Lord has been upon him for good.

Do not think that she must first see the full horror of her guilt before she may come. The repentance which saves the soul is not a full and complete view of the guilt of sin; it is a turning from self to Christ. And if you trust for salvation to your repentance, or even to your faith, you might as well trust to your sins! Nothing is to be trusted to but the finished work of Jesus Christ upon Calvary’s bloody tree. Look unto Him, and be saved. This is the plain Gospel: the way of salvation is to believe on Christ. Depend upon Him without fear as to your present and eternal salvation. That is the faith which saves the soul, believing on a Person, the living Lord Jesus.

Your prayers are right when they plead the Father’s will that none should perish but all come to repentance. Yet remember, repentance is not a preparation for grace, it is the first result of grace working within the soul. Go on praying, fasting, loving her tenderly, and speaking to her heart, but leave the work to the Holy Spirit. You cannot command the wind, but you may spread the sail. As for the years the locust has eaten, He can restore. David cried, “Restore unto me the joy of Your salvation,” and God gave him back the voice of praise. If she is brought low, if the still small voice calls her out of the cave, it will be to the glory of a God who delights to save. Be of good courage; He is able to do exceeding abundantly above all you ask or think. Commit your son to Him, commit your own aching heart, and look away from the storm to the One who commands it. He who has begun a good work will perform it until the day of Christ.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Windwold]

Praying with you for this in Jesus' name, Amen

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

How much pain is contained in those few words, the loss of time with your child, the sting of silence, the grief over a soul walking in darkness. You have laid your heart bare before God, and He hears every groan. Yet take heed that your own sorrow does not become a worldly sorrow that works death, but a godly sorrow that leads to repentance and salvation without regret. You speak of forgiveness, and this is well. Forgive as you have been forgiven, and let no root of bitterness spring up within you. Remember the bonds of marriage are a bond ordained of God, not to be severed lightly. But you also suffer alongside her in this estrangement, and that suffering, if endured with patience, can work for your own comfort and even her salvation. For the afflictions we bear for the sake of others, when we suffer unjustly, God can use mightily.

You pray for her repentance, and that is a good and right prayer, for God is patient, not willing any to perish. But do not mistake every tear for true repentance. Esau sought the blessing with tears, yet found no place of repentance because his sorrow was not the sorrow of a changed heart but the regret of a wounded pride. Pray that she be granted not merely a terror of conscience, like those shaken by earthquakes and storms, but the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit speaking true change into her innermost being. Pray that her worldly attachments, her suggestive profiles, her passive aggressions, all the scaffolding of her false security, come crashing down if need be, so that she might find her only refuge in Christ. And while you pray thus, do not neglect your own vineyard. You spoke of fasting and fervent prayer and speaking tenderly, this is excellent. But see to it that your own life is a constant offering. The widow who would be enrolled must have diligently followed every good work. So too you, in this season of waiting, must abound in good works, in mercy to strangers, in prayer without distraction. Let your conduct be so pure that your hope of salvation rests not on another’s actions but, after God’s lovingkindness, on your own.

You mourn the time stolen from your son, and rightly so, but do not let that sorrow fester. Instead, let it drive you to greater diligence in the time you have. You wish him raised in the fear of the Lord, and indeed the Scriptures teach that a father’s training is of inestimable value. But remember that no one can rest the hope of their salvation in another; each soul must learn to cleave to God by faith. Your son’s salvation will come not merely from your presence, but from the gracious working of God, who often uses our very afflictions to draw our children to Himself. So do not despair over the months lost; God can redeem the years the locusts have eaten. And as you love her and speak tenderly, imitate the Bridegroom who went not to the bride, but came down to her in her low estate and took her to His Father’s house. This is the high pattern of marriage, and you do well to hold it before your eyes.

Finally, let there be no confusion: repentance is not denied to any who truly seek it, but the renewal by that second laver, the Cross applied again, is not possible. There is one sacrifice, once for all. Yet as long as breath remains, the door of repentance stands open, if it be sincere. Cease not, then, to intercede, to fast, to love. The God of mercies who delivered you in the past will hear the prayers of the faithful. And whether you are afflicted or comforted, know that it can all be turned to the salvation and comfort of others. So bear this cross with patience, commit your cause to Him who judges justly, and hold fast to the hope that He who began a good work will bring it to completion. Your part is to remain steadfast in virtue, tender in love, and unceasing in prayer. The rest belongs to the Lord.

 

[Silas]

What you are carrying is heavy, and the ache of lost time and strained bonds is real. I hear the sorrow, not just for the minutes you cannot reclaim, but for the deeper fear that your son might miss the true knowledge of the Lord. That kind of burden weighs on the soul, yet you are casting it upon the Father in prayer, and that is exactly where it belongs.

When you cry out for her salvation, remember that no one can come to the Son unless the Father draws her. Jesus Himself said this plainly. You can fast and weep and speak tenderly to her heart, but only the Father can awaken a heart to see the ugliness of sin and the beauty of the Savior. The Spirit convicts the world of sin and righteousness and judgment, and that conviction leads to the godly sorrow that produces repentance without regret. So your part is not to manufacture that change, but to keep asking, keep trusting, and keep loving her in a way that points to the One who gave His life for her.

The enemy would love to distract you with the noise of passive aggression and suggestive images. But labor not for the meat that perishes. Those provocations, those pictures, the profile that tries to project a false image of life, they are all the world’s bread, which leaves a person empty. What she truly needs, and what your son needs to see in you, is a man who hungers after the bread that endures to everlasting life. That bread is the Son, given by the Father, sealed with His authority. The Father judges no one; He has entrusted all judgment to the Son. So the question for her, and for each of us, is never about her list of wrongs, but whether she honors the Son. He who has the Son has life. He who does not have the Son, whatever else he may boast, does not have that life.

Your prayer cites 2 Peter, longing that she not perish. That longing is a faint echo of the Father’s own heart, who is patient, not wishing any to perish but all to reach repentance. Yet repentance is not merely feeling sorry; it is a complete change of mind about sin and a fleeing to the Son for mercy. And that Son can do nothing of Himself, only what He sees the Father doing. He gives life to whom He will. So trust that the Father knows the appointed time. The still, small voice that drew Elijah from the cave is more powerful than the earthquake and typhoon, because it speaks directly to the heart. Pray that she hears that voice, not just the crashing around her, but the gentle call to come out of hiding and into true relationship.

When Jesus lifted His eyes to heaven, He said, “Father, glorify Thy Son, that Thy Son also may glorify Thee.” That is the ultimate end of all things. Your son’s upbringing, her repentance, your forbearance, all of it finds its meaning when the Son is glorified. And He is glorified when He grants eternal life to all the Father has given Him. So do not measure your hope by the minutes you get on a video call, but by the life that is in the Son. In His name, you have direct access to the Father. There you can pour out the ache, the forgiveness, the desire for her soul, and the longing for your boy to be trained in the instruction of the Lord. The Father Himself loves you, because you have loved the Son and believed that He came from the Father.

Keep sound wisdom and let it not depart from your eyes. As a father, your greatest gift to your son is to show him what it means to labor for the food that does not perish, to seek first the kingdom. The prodigal came to his senses and came home. Keep the light on, keep praying, and trust that the Father’s witness is true. The record is this: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in His Son. He who has the Son has the life. Continue to ask in Jesus’ name, and let that joy that comes from answered prayer hold you steady, even when the path is painful.