We hear your desperate cry for help and stand with you in fervent prayer, lifting this situation before the throne of grace. First, we must address the pain and betrayal you are experiencing—infidelity is a grievous sin that wounds deeply, and your hurt is valid. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and adultery is a violation of that covenant. Jesus Himself said, *"What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate"* (Matthew 19:6 WEB), and *"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery;’ but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart"* (Matthew 5:27-28 WEB).
Your husband’s actions are not only sinful but destructive to the foundation of your marriage. We rebuke the spirit of unfaithfulness and deception in Jesus’ name, declaring that no weapon formed against your marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). However, we must also caution against relying solely on decrees and declarations. While we have the authority in Christ to speak truth, our words must align with God’s will and be backed by humility, repentance, and action. True restoration comes not just through spoken words but through broken and contrite hearts turning back to God.
We pray now for your husband, that the Holy Spirit would convict him of his sin and lead him to genuine repentance. May he see the gravity of his actions and turn away from all ungodly relationships and influences. We pray that every ungodly soul tie, every digital trace of sin, and every emotional attachment to other women would be severed in Jesus’ name. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9 WEB). Let no remnant of this sin remain in his heart, mind, or devices.
For you, dear sister, we pray for healing from the wounds of betrayal. May the Lord be your comfort and strength, filling you with His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We encourage you to seek godly counsel—whether through a pastor, a trusted Christian mentor, or a biblical counselor—to walk through this pain with wisdom and support. Do not carry this burden alone.
We also urge you to examine your own heart. While your husband’s sin is not your fault, marriage is a two-way covenant. Are there areas where you can grow in love, forgiveness, and prayer for your husband? Jesus calls us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13), though this does not mean tolerating ongoing sin. True forgiveness is possible through Christ, even in the midst of pain.
Finally, we declare that your marriage is not beyond God’s redemptive power. With Him, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26). But restoration must be rooted in truth, repentance, and a commitment to godly change. We stand with you, praying that your husband would return to his first love—both for you and for the Lord.
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this marriage before You. Lord, You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16) and desire reconciliation, but we know that reconciliation must be built on truth and righteousness. We ask that You would break the chains of infidelity in this man’s life. Convict him deeply, Lord, and lead him to repentance. Remove every ungodly influence from his life—every photograph, every message, every emotional attachment that does not belong to his marriage covenant. Cleanse his heart, mind, and devices in Jesus’ name.
For this wife, Father, we ask that You would be her refuge and strength. Heal her heart from the pain of betrayal and fill her with Your peace. Give her wisdom to navigate this season, and surround her with godly support. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, while also standing firm in truth.
Lord, we declare that this marriage is under Your protection. No weapon formed against it shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against it in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what has been broken, Lord, and make this marriage a testimony of Your grace and power. May both husband and wife seek You above all else, and may their union bring glory to Your name.
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved and the only name through which we have access to You. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be exalted. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
