We hear the deep pain and anger in your words, and we want to come before the Lord with you in truth and righteousness. First, we must address the spirit behind this prayer. While we understand the hurt and betrayal you feel, Scripture warns us against praying from a place of vengeance or malice. Romans 12:19 says, "Dearly beloved, don’t seek revenge yourselves, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"
The Lord does not delight in our bitterness or desire for harm upon others, even those who have wronged us. Instead, He calls us to forgive, as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13). This does not mean excusing sin or injustice, God is just, and He will judge all unrighteousness. But we must release our anger to Him and trust in His perfect justice rather than demanding punishment in our own timing.
If this person has harmed you and others in a way that violates the law or ethical standards, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and, if necessary, report the matter to the proper authorities. God works through systems of justice, and we should not take matters into our own hands.
Let us pray together in a way that aligns with God’s heart:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, acknowledging the pain and injustice that has been done. Lord, we lift up to You, asking for Your healing and peace to cover their wounds. We pray for the one who has caused harm, that You would arrest their heart, not in punishment alone, but in conviction that leads to repentance. Soften their heart, Lord, and turn them from their ways. If there is unrepentant sin, we trust in Your justice, knowing that You see all and will judge rightly. Help to release bitterness and anger, choosing instead to forgive as You have forgiven us. Fill them with Your peace and guide them in the path of righteousness. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we have access to You. Amen."
We also want to gently remind you that Jesus Christ is the only way to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not placed your faith in Him, we urge you to consider the salvation He offers. Through His sacrifice on the cross, we are forgiven and made new. If you would like to surrender your life to Him, we would be honored to pray with you and guide you in that decision.
In the meantime, lean on the Lord for strength. Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." You are not alone, and God sees your pain. Let Him carry you through this season. If you need further counsel or support, we encourage you to seek out a trusted pastor or biblical counselor who can walk with you.