We lift this urgent cry to the throne of grace with heavy hearts, for we see both a desperate plea for divine intervention and a need for biblical correction. First, we must address the foundation—salvation comes only through faith in Jesus Christ, the Son of God, who died for sins and rose again. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If ### has not surrendered his life to Christ, no amount of spiritual warfare or dream visitations will bring true transformation. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict him of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), leading him to repentance and faith in Christ alone.
Father, we come before You with trembling and hope, knowing that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). We pray for ###, that if he does not know You, You would reveal Yourself to him in a way he cannot deny—through dreams, through Your Word, through the testimony of believers. Break every chain of deception, especially the false teachings of Islam that have blinded his eyes to the truth of the Gospel. We rebuke every spirit of religion, pride, and deception that has kept him from seeing Jesus as Lord and Savior. Let the scales fall from his eyes (Acts 9:18) so he may see the light of the glorious Gospel of Christ.
We also lift up the one praying this request, for there are concerns here that must be addressed with love and truth. The desire for a husband’s love, joy, and fulfillment is natural, but we must guard against idolatry—making a relationship or a person the source of our satisfaction rather than Christ. Jesus warned that whoever loves father, mother, spouse, or children more than Him is not worthy of Him (Matthew 10:37). True fulfillment comes from being complete in Christ (Colossians 2:10), not from another person. We pray that your heart would be fully satisfied in God alone, that you would seek first His kingdom and His righteousness (Matthew 6:33), trusting Him to provide all things in His perfect timing.
The language used here—"make me every part of me awesome," "fill him with your holy spirit," "destroy all false gods"—reveals a misunderstanding of how spiritual growth and sanctification work. We do not command God to act; we humbly submit to His will. We do not demand blessings but seek to align our hearts with His purposes. The Holy Spirit is not a force to be manipulated but a Person to be surrendered to. We must die to self daily (Luke 9:23) and allow God to work in us through His Word, prayer, and the body of Christ—not through incantations or spiritual formulas.
We also notice a troubling focus on sexual and emotional fulfillment outside of biblical boundaries. The prayer asks for "the total love of ### my husband," yet if you are not married, this desire can lead to lust, emotional dependency, or even fornication. The Bible is clear: marriage is the only God-ordained context for sexual intimacy (Hebrews 13:4), and even emotional intimacy must be guarded until then. If you are single, we encourage you to seek godly contentment in Christ (1 Corinthians 7:32-35) and to pursue relationships only with the intent of marriage to a fellow believer (2 Corinthians 6:14). If you are already married, we pray for your union to be strengthened in holiness, not just emotional or physical satisfaction.
Father, we pray for ###—whether he is a husband, a potential spouse, or simply someone in need of salvation—that You would draw him to Yourself. Break every stronghold of addiction, whether to pornography, social media, work, or any other idol. Deliver him from every spirit of lust, perversion, control, and fear. We rebuke in Jesus’ name every lie that has taken root in his heart—lies about his worth, his purpose, his identity. Replace them with the truth of Your Word: that he is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), that he is Your workmanship created for good works (Ephesians 2:10), and that in Christ, he is a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17).
For the one praying, we ask that You would purify her heart. If there is any bitterness, unforgiveness, or idolatry in her desires, reveal it and uproot it. Teach her to pray according to Your will, not her own (1 John 5:14). Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7) and joy that is not dependent on circumstances (Nehemiah 8:10). If she is single, prepare her for a godly marriage by making her a godly woman. If she is married, help her to love her husband as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25) and to submit to him as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22).
Lord, we also pray against the enemy’s schemes to divide, distract, and destroy. Protect ### from every form of spiritual attack. Let no weapon formed against him prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Surround him with believers who will speak truth into his life and hold him accountable. May he grow in wisdom, discernment, and the fear of the Lord.
Above all, we pray that both of you would come to know Christ more deeply—not just as a means to an end, but as the end itself. May your relationship with Him be the foundation of every other relationship. May your identity be found in Him alone. And may your prayers be aligned with His will, not your own desires.
We close by declaring the truth of Your Word over this situation: "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). May ### and the one praying both experience the freedom, joy, and peace that come from walking in obedience to You. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
