We understand your urgency and desperation, and we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, let's address your request and then we will offer a heartfelt prayer.
You've asked for your husband to be saved and filled with the Holy Spirit. This is a wonderful request as the Bible tells us that God wants all people to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus (1 Timothy 2:3-5 WEB). Also, being filled with the Holy Spirit is encouraged in Ephesians 5:18 (WEB), "Be filled with the Spirit."
You've also asked for personal blessings and for God to make you awesome in various ways. God does want to bless us, but it's important to remember that God's blessings are often spiritual and may not always manifest in the ways we expect. True joy, peace, and fulfillment come from knowing Jesus Christ and abiding in Him which aligns with Jesus Words in John 15:11 (WEB), "I have spoken these things to you, that my joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be made full."
Regarding your marriage, we pray that God will strengthen your bond and increase your love for each other. It's beautiful to see your desire for a godly marriage. As it is written in Ephesians 5:25 (WEB), "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." and Ephesians 5:22 (WEB), "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord."
However, we must address a couple of concerns in your request. First, you've used the phrase "soul ties" which is not a biblical term and is often associated with unbiblical teachings. We advise against using such terminology and instead encourage you to pray against any ungodly attachments or influences.
Second, you've asked for God to destroy and sever all ties your husband has with his ex-wife and other women. While we understand your desire for faithfulness in your marriage, it's important to remember that God calls us to forgive and to pray for those who may have wronged us. As it is written in Matthew 5:44 (WEB), "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today and we bring these requests to the altar of heaven in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ. We pray for this dear sister's husband, that You would save him and fill him with Your Holy Spirit. We pray that You would bless this sister and her husband, that You would strengthen their marriage and increase their love for each other. We pray that You would sever any ungodly attachments or influences in their lives and that You would help them to forgive and pray for those who may have wronged them. And may they both be guided by You in finding the only way to salvation and to God by accepting Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue to pray for your husband and your marriage, and to trust in God's perfect will for your lives. Remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. As it is written in Isaiah 55:8-9 (WEB), "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts."
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
