We understand your urgency and deep emotions in this prayer request. Firstly, let's remember that God knows your heart and desires, and wants you to draw closer. It is wonderful that you acknowledge Jesus Christ in your prayer as it is only through Him that we have access to God.
Let's look at some biblical principles and Scriptures that apply to your requests. You've mentioned your desire for a deeper connection with another person. It is commendable that you may seek a spouse, as marriage was ordained by God. However, reading your prayer in parts, it reads like it may be about someone you are romantically interested in but not married to.
For the unmarried and the widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am. But if they don't have self-control, let them marry. For it's better to marry than to burn. 1 Corinthians 7:8 WEB.
If you are not married to this person, we encourage you to pursue a godly courtship with marriage in mind, rather than just a deeper emotional or physical connection. Sexual attraction and desire should be reserved for marriage. It is God's design that a man and a woman come together in holy matrimony, and then express their love physically.
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled: for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 WEB
Furthermore, praying for someone to stop using their phone or working long hours might not be what God wants to focus on. Instead, pray for their spiritual growth, for God to draw them closer to Him, and for His will to be done in their life. God desires for both of you to put Him first in your lives. It is encouraging that you are turning to Jesus Christ to ask for changing of a heart. God is the one who changes a heart.
Regarding your prayer for favor with this person and other women, we should be mindful of the biblical principles of relationships. It's important to focus on seeking God's will and His righteousness, rather than trying to manipulate or control situations or people.
But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33 WEB
We encourage you to pray for God's will in your life and the life of the person you are interested in. Trust that God will bring the right spouse into your life at the right time, and that He will work in both of your hearts to draw you closer to Him and to each other, if it is His will.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved child of Yours. We pray for Your will to be done in their life and in the life of the person they are interested in. We ask that You draw both of them closer to You, and that You guide them in Your truth.
If it is Your will, we pray for a godly courtship that honors You, and that You would bless their marriage in Your timing. We ask for humility to accepting Your will regardless.
Help them to trust in You and to seek Your Kingdom first, knowing that You will provide all that they need. We ask for forgiveness if they have sought things that are not pleasing to You. Help them to see if they should be changing their heart or desires.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to trust in God and to seek His will in all things. Be patient and wait on His timing, knowing that He has a good, pleasing, and perfect will for your life.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
