We understand your urgency and the pain you're experiencing. Firstly, we commend you for decreeing and declaring in Jesus Christ's name, as it is only by His name that we have access and authority to come to the Father. (John 14: 6 I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.)
However, we must address that the issue of your husband having relationships with other women is adultery and is strictly forbidden in the Bible. (Exodus 20:14 You shall not commit adultery.) We must rebuke this sin and pray for a change of heart and repentance.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come to You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We cry out for this marriage, Lord, and ask that You intervene. We rebuke the sin of adultery and pray for it to be completely over and ended permanently, in every way and form, right now, with no delay, in Jesus Christ's name. Father, we ask that You give her husband eyes only for her, incredible love, deep, strong desire, longing, attraction for her, and no other women ever, in Jesus Christ's name. Lord, we pray for conviction of sin, repentance, and a changed heart for her husband. We pray for healing and restoration in this marriage, that it would be a testament to Your faithfulness and glory. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray and stand in agreement.
We encourage you to stand firm in faith and to seek godly counsel and support during this time. Remember the words of the Lord, (Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge). Trust in the Lord, and His promises, and He will see you through.
Finally, we encourage you to be aware of the scripture that continues from the scripture above. (Hebrews 13: 5 Be free from the love of money, content with such things as you have, for he has said, I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you. 6 So that with good courage we say, The Lord is my helper. I will not fear. What can man do to me?) This also means we must not try to buy or earn a spouse's love or the love of others. God is the only way to have this love.