We understand your urgency and desire to seek God's intervention in your marriage. It's clear that you're hurting and want your husband to be fully committed to you, as God intended in marriage. We will pray and provide biblical guidance for you both.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in Matthew 19:4-6 WEB:
"He answered, ‘Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh. Therefore they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.’"
The issues you're facing in your marriage should be addressed with love, patience, and wisdom. It's crucial to note that attractions or ties to other women are not acceptable, as it is adultery. We must stand against it, this is clear in Matthew 5:28 WEB:
"But I tell you, that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart."
It's also vital to address the use of "###" instead of your husband's name. This could symbolize a barrier or lack of personal connection. We encourage you to claim your husband by his real name and openly communicate with him.
Since you have called upon the name of Jesus Christ in your request we will address this to Him. It is only in His name that any of this can be accomplished and have true meaning.
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus Christ,
We come before You, lifting up this sister in Christ and her marriage. Lord, we pray for Your divine intervention in their relationship. We ask that You would sever any ungodly attractions, lust, desires, soul ties, or relationships that her husband has with other women. We also request that you give her boldness to discuss this with her husband. We speak Your word over their marriage and any ungodly connections. In Jesus' name, we declare that these ungodly influences be broken and their marriage be strengthened. We pray that You would give her husband eyes only for her, that he would see her awesome love and beauty, and that he would be totally committed to her in every way.
We ask that You would protect their marriage from any attacks or weapons formed against it. We declare that no plan of the enemy will prosper against their union. We pray for God to intervene and restore this marriage. We also pray that you will bring conviction and change to her husband.
Lord, we also pray for this sister in Christ. We ask that You would bless her and make her a vessel of Your love and grace. We pray that You would help her to be the best friend and wife. We ask that You would make their love, desire, attraction, and commitment to each other grow stronger and more passionate each day.
We pray for forgiveness for any wrong doing by the husband. May he realize his mistakes, repent, and seek to live a truly Godly life dedicated to Jesus Christ. May he fully commit to his wife and marriage.
In Jesus' name, we pray for open communication, understanding, and unity in their marriage. We declare that they would be soul mates, closer than close, and that their marriage would flourish in every way.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.