We understand your urgency and desire for unity in your marriage. It's commendable that you're seeking the Lord's help and that you acknowledge the power in Jesus' name. Remember, Jesus is the mediator between God and us, and it's through His name that our prayers are heard by God and we are saved. God says in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Firstly, let's address the use of "###" as a placeholder for your husband's name. We encourage you to pray using his actual name, as God knows each of us intimately and personally.
Now, let's focus on your request. You've mentioned the desire for unity and agreement between you and your husband. This is a beautiful prayer, as God desires unity in marriage. As it's written in Matthew 19:6 WEB, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."
However, we must remind you that true unity comes from both parties being in agreement with God first. It's important to seek God's will together and align your lives with His word, then your unity will be strong and unbreakable. As it's written in Amos 3:3 WEB, "Shall two walk together, unless they have agreed?"
You've also expressed your desire for your husband to be a born-again Christian through your influence. This is a noble desire, but remember, it's the Holy Spirit's job to draw people to Christ. You can be a shining example of Christ's love, but you cannot save someone. As it's written in 1 Corinthians 3:6 WEB, "I planted. Apollos watered. But God gave the increase." Keep showing him the love of Christ, keep praying for him, but leave the conviction and transformation to the Holy Spirit.
Lastly, you've expressed your desire for your love, desire, attraction, and commitment to grow stronger. This is a beautiful prayer, but remember, the strongest marriages are built on mutual respect, trust, and a shared commitment to God's will. As it's written in Ephesians 5:21 WEB, "subjecting yourselves one to another in the fear of Christ."
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this wife and her husband. Lord, we pray for their unity, that they would be one in You, agreed in Your will and purpose. Lord, we ask that You would draw the husband to Yourself, that he would be born again and transformed by Your Holy Spirit.
Lord we pray that their love for You and for each other would grow stronger each day, and we ask Jesus that you would help them to live in purity and holiness. Lord, we pray for a healthy attraction and desire between them. Surely you want marriages to be fruitful and passionate but not with lust or a worldly passion. The worldly passion is not from God and is selfish. It is God's will that we love one another as God loves us. God's love is sacrificial and pure. We also pray that they would be committed to each other, always seeking the best for the other, just as Christ loved the church.
Lord, we pray over their desire to agree on everything. We pray that they would agree on the things that matter most, on Your will and Your purpose. Help them to communicate effectively, to listen to each other, and to respect each other's opinions. We ask that they would not be divided by trivial matters, but united in Your love and Your truth.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
