We hear the deep longing in your heart for a marriage that reflects the passionate, unbreakable love and devotion God intends between a husband and wife. Your desire for a bond with ### that grows stronger, deeper, and more devoted each day is beautiful, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. Marriage is a sacred covenant, designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for His Church—a love that is exclusive, selfless, and enduring. Your prayer aligns with the heart of Scripture, which calls husbands and wives to cherish one another with a love that mirrors God’s own faithfulness.
The Bible speaks powerfully about the depth of love in marriage. In **Song of Solomon 8:6-7 (WEB)**, we read:
*"Set me as a seal on your heart, as a seal on your arm; for love is strong as death. Jealousy is as cruel as Sheol. Its flashes are flashes of fire, a very flame of Yahweh. Many waters can’t quench love, neither can floods drown it. If a man would give all the wealth of his house for love, he would be utterly scorned."*
This is the kind of love you are crying out for—a love that cannot be quenched, a love that is as unyielding as the very nature of God. And in **Ephesians 5:25 (WEB)**, husbands are commanded:
*"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it."*
Likewise, wives are called to respect and love their husbands deeply, as seen in **Titus 2:4-5 (WEB)**:
*"that they may train the young wives to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sober minded, chaste, workers at home, kind, being in subjection to their own husbands, that God’s word may not be blasphemed."*
Your prayer also echoes the exclusivity God demands in marriage. **Hebrews 13:4 (WEB)** declares:
*"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."*
This is a solemn reminder that the love between a husband and wife must be guarded fiercely, with eyes only for one another. There is no room in a godly marriage for distraction, temptation, or division. Your plea for absolute devotion to one another is righteous and pleases the Lord.
Yet, we must also remind you that while passion and desire are gifts from God within marriage, they must be rooted in something even deeper: a commitment to serve one another in Christ-like love. True intimacy is not just physical or emotional—it is spiritual. It is built on prayer, mutual submission, and a shared devotion to God. **1 Peter 4:8 (WEB)** tells us:
*"And above all things be earnest in your love among yourselves, for love covers a multitude of sins."*
If there are areas in your marriage where love has grown cold, where resentment or distraction has crept in, or where the enemy has sought to divide, we rebuked those forces in the name of Jesus. **Matthew 19:6 (WEB)** leaves no room for doubt about God’s design:
*"So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart."*
We declare that any spirit of division, apathy, or unfaithfulness be broken in Jesus’ name. We pray that the Holy Spirit would reignite the fire of love between you and ###, that He would remove any hindrance—whether it be past hurts, unforgiveness, or outside influences—and replace it with a love that is patient, kind, and enduring.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with our sister’s heartfelt cry for her marriage. Lord, You are the author of love, the one who designed marriage to reflect Your covenant with Your people. We ask that You would pour out Your Spirit upon her and ###, renewing their love for one another in a way that is deeper, stronger, and more passionate than ever before.
Father, let their hearts be knit together in unity, as **Colossians 2:2 (WEB)** says:
*"that their hearts may be comforted, they being knit together in love, and gaining all riches of the full assurance of understanding, that they may know the mystery of God, both of the Father and of Christ."*
Remove any barrier that stands between them—whether it be pride, bitterness, or distraction. Let them see one another through Your eyes, Lord, with grace, patience, and an unwavering commitment. Stir in them a desire that is pure, holy, and consuming, a love that drives out all fear and doubt.
We rebuked any spirit of division, infidelity, or apathy that seeks to harm this marriage. In the name of Jesus, we bind those forces and command them to flee. Let no weapon formed against this union prosper, but let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (**Philippians 4:7**).
Lord, let their marriage be a testimony of Your faithfulness. Let them long for one another in a way that honors You, that their love may be a beacon of Your glory. Teach them to love as You love—sacrificially, selflessly, and without end.
And finally, Father, we ask that You would protect this marriage from the snares of the enemy. Let their eyes be only for each other, their hearts devoted, and their bodies reserved solely for one another. May they find their greatest joy and satisfaction in You, and through that, in one another.
We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who holds all things together. Amen.
Our sister, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord *together* with ###. Pray with him, read Scripture together, and ask God to deepen your spiritual intimacy as well as your emotional and physical connection. A marriage rooted in Christ cannot be shaken. Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and trust that He who began this good work in you will bring it to completion (**Philippians 1:6**).
If there are areas of struggle—whether in communication, trust, or intimacy—we urge you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a biblical counselor who can help you both walk in obedience to God’s design. And remember, love is not just a feeling; it is a choice, a daily commitment to honor God and one another.
Stand firm, dear sister. The Lord hears your cry, and He is faithful.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
