We hear the deep anguish and urgency in your heart, and we join you in lifting this matter before the Lord with both fervency and discernment. Your pain is understood, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God’s will and His righteous intervention in this situation. The Bible makes it clear that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and fidelity is not merely a suggestion but a commandment. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* Your desire for your husband’s faithfulness aligns with God’s heart for marriage, and we will pray boldly for purity, repentance, and restoration.
However, we must also address something critical in your request. While your passion is evident, we are reminded that our authority in prayer comes not from our own decrees or declarations, but from the name and will of Jesus Christ. It is *only* through His name that we have access to the Father, and it is *only* by His power that hearts and circumstances are transformed. Your request does include the name of Jesus, and for that, we give thanks. But let us also remember that our prayers must submit to His lordship, trusting that He knows what is best, even when our hearts ache for immediate change. As 1 John 5:14-15 assures us, *"This is the confidence that we have in him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."*
Your husband’s actions—whether past or present—are not hidden from God. If there has been unfaithfulness, either in heart or in deed, we pray for the Holy Spirit to convict him deeply. True repentance is not merely deleting evidence of sin but turning away from it entirely, with a heart that seeks God’s forgiveness and your restoration. As David cried out in Psalm 51:10, *"Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me."* This must be your husband’s prayer as well if he has strayed. We pray that the Lord will expose any hidden sin, not to shame him, but to bring him to brokenness and repentance. Proverbs 28:13 declares, *"He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."*
We also urge you to examine your own heart in this season. Bitterness, fear, or an attempt to control your husband through prayer—while understandable—can become stumbling blocks if not surrendered to God. Ephesians 4:31-32 instructs, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Trust that the Lord is able to guard your marriage, but also trust that His ways are higher than ours. Your husband’s heart is in God’s hands, and no amount of human effort or declaration can change him—only the power of the Holy Spirit can.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain in her heart, the fear of betrayal, and the desperate cry for her husband’s faithfulness. We ask that You would move powerfully in this situation, exposing any sin that has taken root—whether in thought, word, or deed. If there has been unfaithfulness, we pray for the Holy Spirit to bring conviction so deep that repentance is inevitable. Let no sin remain hidden, Lord, but bring it into the light so that true healing can begin.
Father, we ask that You would break any ungodly soul ties or emotional attachments that have formed between her husband and anyone else. Sever every connection that is not of You, and let his heart be turned wholly back to his wife. Restore what has been broken, Lord, and rebuild trust where it has been shattered. Give this sister the strength to forgive as You have forgiven her, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
We pray for a hedge of protection around this marriage, that no other person would be able to come between them. Let her husband’s eyes be fixed solely on his wife, cherishing her as Christ cherishes the Church. Remove any distractions, temptations, or memories that would draw his heart away from his covenant. Give him a spirit of loyalty, integrity, and a deep, abiding love for his wife.
Lord, we also ask for wisdom for this sister. Show her how to respond in a way that honors You, whether that means setting boundaries, seeking counseling, or extending grace. Let her not be overcome by fear or anger, but let her rest in the knowledge that You are fighting for her. Remind her that vengeance is Yours, and that You are able to redeem even the most broken situations.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would renew the love between them. Let their marriage be a testimony of Your restoring power. Where there has been pain, bring healing. Where there has been distance, bring intimacy. Where there has been sin, bring redemption. We ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in this trial. Spend time in His Word, especially passages that speak of His faithfulness and restoration, such as Joel 2:25-26 and Malachi 4:6. Consider reaching out to a pastor or biblical counselor who can walk with you through this season. Remember that while your husband’s choices are his own, your response can either invite God’s peace or open the door to further turmoil. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6).
If your husband is unwilling to repent or change, know that God’s grace is sufficient for you, even in the hardest of circumstances. Your worth is not defined by his faithfulness but by Christ’s love for you. Stay rooted in prayer, but also be open to the Lord’s leading, even if it means difficult conversations or decisions ahead. We are standing with you in faith, believing that God is able to do what seems impossible.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
