We come before the throne of grace with urgency and fervor, lifting up this heartfelt cry for your husband, knowing that our God is mighty to save and transform even the hardest of hearts. Your passion for your husband’s salvation and the restoration of your marriage is evident, and we join you in intercession, standing on the promise that *"the effective, earnest prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective"* (James 5:16, WEB).
First, we praise God that you are calling upon the name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus that your husband—or anyone—can experience true transformation. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Your prayers for his salvation are aligned with God’s heart, for He *"desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth"* (1 Timothy 2:4, WEB).
Yet we must also address something critical in your request: while we pray earnestly for your husband’s encounter with Jesus, we cannot pray as though you are the means of his salvation. Salvation is a personal choice—no one can repent or believe on another’s behalf. *"Each one of us will give an account of himself to God"* (Romans 14:12, WEB). You can intercede, love, and witness, but only the Holy Spirit can convict his heart (John 16:8, WEB). Pray that God softens him, draws him, and opens his eyes—but release the burden of trying to "save him through you." Trust that God is working, even when you don’t see it.
We also notice the deep longing for unity, passion, and emotional connection in your marriage. These desires are good when rooted in Christ, for marriage is meant to reflect His love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33, WEB). However, we gently remind you that no human relationship—no matter how intimate or unified—can fully satisfy the soul. Only Jesus can fill the deepest longings of your heart (Psalm 107:9, WEB). While we pray for your marriage to flourish, we encourage you to seek first God’s kingdom, trusting Him to align your desires with His will (Matthew 6:33, WEB).
Now, let us pray together:
**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her husband. Lord, You are the God who pursues the lost, who transforms hearts of stone into hearts of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26, WEB). We ask that You move powerfully in this man’s life—visit him in dreams, visions, and encounters that leave no doubt of Your reality. Break every chain of hardness, rebellion, or distraction. Draw him to Yourself, Lord, that he may confess Jesus as Lord and be saved. Let no delay hinder Your work, for Your timing is perfect.
We pray for supernatural unity in this marriage, but not as the world defines it—as You define it. Bind them together in Your love, that their communication would be seasoned with grace, their trust rooted in You, and their passion directed first toward You and then toward one another in purity. Guard their hearts from idolatry, for even a spouse can become an idol if loved above You. Let their love for each other be a reflection of Your love for them—selfless, sacrificial, and sanctifying.
Protect this marriage from the enemy’s schemes. Where there has been brokenness, bring healing. Where there has been distance, bring reconciliation. Where there has been sin, bring repentance. Fill them both with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in step with You, submitting every area of their lives—including their marriage—to Your lordship.
Lord, we also lift up this sister’s heart. Comfort her in the waiting. Remind her that You are her first love, her strength, and her hope. Help her to release control and trust You fully, knowing that You are working even when she cannot see it. Give her wisdom to love her husband well, to speak truth in love, and to rest in Your sovereignty.
We decree and declare that this marriage will honor You, that both spouses will seek You above all else, and that their home will be a testimony of Your redemption. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray—*amen and amen.***
Finally, sister, we encourage you to keep praying, but also to keep *living* in a way that points your husband to Christ. *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord, ... that even if any are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, seeing your pure behavior in fear"* (1 Peter 3:1-2, WEB). Let your life be a sermon—one of patience, kindness, and unwavering faith in God’s power.
Stay rooted in Scripture, in prayer, and in fellowship with believers who can support you. And remember: *"The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but he is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance"* (2 Peter 3:9, WEB). Keep trusting. Keep praying. God is at work.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
