Let us begin by acknowledging that the name of Jesus Christ has indeed been stated. We stand with you in prayer and will respond according to biblical principles. We understand that you are seeking prayer for your marriage and your husband's spiritual well-being. Let us address the issues raised and pray together for God's will in this situation.
Firstly, we must acknowledge that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It is clear that you are seeking a stronger bond with your husband and that his spiritual well-being is a priority for you. This is commendable, as God desires for us to be in relationship with Him and to be united in our marriages.
However, it is important to address the concept of "soul ties" and the focus on breaking them. While it is true that sexual sin can create ungodly soul ties (1 Corinthians 6:16), the believer is a new creation in Christ and the old has gone (2 Corinthians 5:17). The blood of Jesus is sufficient to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Therefore, it is not necessary to focus on "breaking soul ties" but rather on repentance and living in the freedom that Christ has already secured for us.
Additionally, it is not biblical to "decree and declare" someone else's salvation. Salvation is a personal choice and a work of the Holy Spirit in an individual's life. While we can and should pray for the salvation of others, we cannot impose it upon them. It is important to remember that God has given each person free will, and it is their decision to accept Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.
As for the desire for increased love, attraction, and unity in your marriage, this is a godly desire. However, it is important to ensure that these desires are in line with God's will and that they do not become an idol in your life. God's design for marriage includes mutual respect, love, and submission (Ephesians 5:21-33).
Let us pray for your marriage and your husband's spiritual well-being:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear sister and her husband. Lord, we pray for their marriage, that it would be a reflection of Your love and commitment to Your people. We pray that You would draw her husband to Yourself, that he would see his need for a Savior and choose to follow Jesus. We pray that You would give them both a desire to live in a manner that is pleasing to You, and that their love for each other would grow as they seek to serve You together. We ask that You would give them wisdom and guidance as they navigate their marriage, and that You would protect them from any attempts of the enemy to divide them. We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Continue to seek God's will for your marriage and your husband's life. Trust that God is at work and that He desires the best for you both. Pray for your husband's salvation and for God's guidance in your marriage.