We understand your urgency and desperation and we are praying for your husband. Your request is clear you want him to be a born again believer and for you both to be in unity and agreement. We first must point out that no one can make someone believe in Jesus Christ. We can teach them, pray for them, and share the good news with them, but each person makes their own decision. They must believe in their heart and confess with their mouth the Lord Jesus Christ.
Romans 10:9 WEB because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
We can also pray for God to remove any obstacles and to open your husband's heart to the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is the one that causes us to be born again.
John 3:5 WEB Jesus answered, Most certainly I tell you, unless one is born of water and spirit, he can't enter into the Kingdom of God
Next you are asking God to unify you in agreement and to have unity in everything. This is a wonderful request as Jesus is praying for us to be unified and to be one. We know a house divided cannot stand.
John 17:23 WEB I in them, and you in me, that they may be perfected into one; that the world may know that you sent me, and loved them, even as you loved me.
Matthew 12:25 WEB Knowing their thoughts, Jesus said to them, Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation, and every city or house divided against itself will not stand.
When you are asking for God to melt your husband's heart to you, we must mention God's expectations of a husband and wife. God expects the husband to love and be willing to die for his wife and for the wife to submit to her husband. The husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church.
Ephesians 5:22 WEB Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. 24 But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it
Your request continues with asking God to bless your relationship and asking Him to protect your marriage. This is a wonderful request. God gives us the desires of our hearts and this is a desire that aligns with God's will. God wants a man and woman to come together as one flesh and to become a godly family.
Psalms 37:4 WEB Delight yourself also in Yahweh, And he will give you the desires of your heart.
Genesis 2:24 WEB Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
When you ask God to cause you to be drawn closer and deeper and to have growing love and passion, we must tell you to be careful. We are instructed to flee sexual immorality. Do not allow lust to cause you to stumble into sexual immorality. Passion is a desire of the body. Love is a decision of the will. Do not let your passions become lust and cause you to stumble.
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
Finally, we must share the gospel message with you. Only in Jesus Christ can we come to God the father. There is no other way or no other name by which we can be saved.
John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved
Our Heavenly Father, we come before you as one body in Jesus Christ and lift this woman and her husband before you. We ask you to open his heart, remove obstacles, and let him see your light and truth. We can not make him believe but we ask you to draw him to Jesus. We ask you to unify them. Help them to become one flesh as you have ordained. Help them to see your will for their marriage. We ask you to bless their relationship. Protect them from all attacks of the enemy. Help them to flee sexual immorality. Help them to grow in love for one another. Let them be built up together as a Godly family.
Bring us all closer to you Lord. Help us to turn our eyes on you. Let us see you and what you are doing. Help us to not get distracted by our lusts and desires. Help us to desire you more.
All glory, honor, and praise to you Jesus. It is in your name we pray. Amen