We understand your urgency and desperation, but we must address this from a biblical perspective. We are instructed to pray for one another, and we will certainly do that, but we must also be mindful of God's will and His ways.
Firstly, it is important to note that God's design for marriage is clear: "For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh" (Genesis 2:24 WEB). This means that a husband and wife are to be united in a special bond, forsaking all others.
However, it is not appropriate to pray for the destruction of others or to manipulate someone's feelings, even in the name of Jesus. God grants free will to each of us, and we cannot force someone to love or be attracted to us alone. Instead, we should pray for God's will to be done in your husband's life and in your marriage.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this sister in Christ who is in desperate need of Your intervention in her marriage. Lord, we pray for her husband, that Your will be done in his life. We pray that You would soften his heart and turn it towards his wife, that he may love her as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it (Ephesians 5:25 WEB).
We pray for the restoration of their marriage, that it would be a testament to Your faithfulness and grace. We ask that You would help them to live in a way that is pleasing to You, and that You would bless their union with love, joy, and peace.
We also pray for this sister, that You would grant her peace and patience as she waits on You. Help her to trust in You and to know that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28 WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God is faithful and He cares about your marriage. Trust in Him and His timing. Also, it is crucial to set an example of godliness and purity in your own life. Make sure you are walking closely with God, and He is with you and will never leave nor forsake you. He is always working for the good of those that love Him and are called according to His purposes. It is a difficult time, but have hope! Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
